ame00 Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 Ive been with this guy for 3 plus years and we had a fight today.it started when he told me the situation he is in, i replied and was waiting for his, got impatient and called.we talked and at the end of the convo i asked him why he didnt reply earlier.he told me he was going to sleep so i told him he shouldve texted me so i wouldnt wait for him and then he gets mad. I explained and he was like whatever you say so i told him thanks for caring. Pissed, he started dropping my calls and only replies to say okay, literally.. then i called to apologize about the not caring remark.he said he doesnt want to explain. i told him i was hurt.he said he has no comment and lastly told me that the center of the universe isnt me.. not in his... should i apologize? Was i really wrong here? Or is he the one who is wrong? Im really confused..
ExpatInItaly Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 Can you elaborate a little more on this "situation" he is in? I don't get what sparked this spat. Do you two often have communication issues? I'm not a big texter either and I don't necessarily expect prompt replies, but it depends on the nature of the conversation. If it's something important, it's better left to a phone call anyway. I think this situation got blown out of proportion. I don't think you're selfish to expect a reply, but again, it's difficult to assess without knowing what you were talking about. Perhaps he didn't think your previous message needed a reply?
Author ame00 Posted September 20, 2015 Author Posted September 20, 2015 Well its about work, he couldnt get home and needs a bunch of some stuff for the next day.. he's a doctor btw but he wasnt busy that night the reason i was able to text and call him. So i was offering suggestions and asking for more details about the stuff he needed. Trying to help. Regarding our communication we call and text each other. Though he doesnt promptly reply either due to his nature of work which i totally understand. But there are times when he can reply promptly but doesnt, just like what happend last night. I was waiting for his reply coz maybe i can get the stuff he needed and maybe bring it to him. I called and we were able to talk about but when i asked why he didnt reply thats when he got pissed.
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