Destroyed. Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 Hi, Thankyou for reading. For the last 2 years I have being inlove with my worst enemy. Before i met this person I was fun, always laughing & overall a happy person to be around. He bagan to control me & telling me what i could do and not do. I missed out on things such as my Year 12 formal, friends birthday parties/dinners and family outings. All because he was so selfish & controlling. I let myself go, started gaining weight, crying everyday & not making myself feel pretty. All for one person. For him to tell me how ugly & fat he thinks I am. The past few months he has being MIA every weekend. we mainly talk Monday-Friday during the day and i don't hear from him while his out until he gets home at early hours of the morning. Mind you I'm stuck at home every weekend while he is out. He talks badly about my family, to the point it breaks my heart especially about my own mother. I'm a really nice, humble, caring person. And I can be easily controlled as to how nice I am. His friends have basically given up on him because they see how bad he treats me. It's being the worst birthdays, the worst new years eve's, the worst days of my life. And i feel like i'm just living for this guy. I've lost friends, hardly seen my family & lastly lost myself because of someone who I thought loved me. I want to be strong enough to let go, because I know i deserve so much better than this individual. But he doesn't think he does anything wrong by me. I just want to let go, but not sure how to as for 2 years his all i've really known & whenever he gets weak he makes me weak & comes back saying his going to change but that only last a couple days..
smackie9 Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 Abuse is abuse, and he will never change. You need to get away. Pack your stuff up and go home to mom. Delete him, block him on social media, your phone, don't tell him or anyone you are leaving or where you are going......just disappear. You need to stay out of his clutches. 4
kassy Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 Be strong and just pack up as said and go home to mum and rebuild your life with your friends and families help. Block him in every way from your life and get yourself to a safe place with people who really love you. Doesn't matter what he says he will not change. You deserve more from life. Good luck 1
ExpatInItaly Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 He's a jerk who's probably got other girls on rotation during all these weekend disappearances. Go home to your family. Don't let this little punk destroy what self-esteem you have left. He isn't worth it.
Siquijor Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 Get yourself a real man and dump this loser ASAP. Freaks like this need people to control so their pathetic existence becomes more manageable. And don't fall for his BS. The only person he cares about is himself.
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