inigele14u Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 :D:D I am writing this for awareness, because a lot of women I run into do not know these trivial "not-to-do" things when it comes to men. Here we go ladies: 1. Insulting his p:bunny:nis size - For God's sake, if you don't want to completely ruin everything about your relationship just avoid the subject. You will destroy his ego completely if he even gets the hint that you think it's small. 2. Telling him he's controlling - Hold on... Let me explain. Yes the bastard may be controlling, however.... A man will immediately confuse himself if he ever tries to 'fix' this situation. He will view every single one of his decisions as being controlling, he will become a "yes-man" in the relationship. All his manhood goes down the drain as SOON as he tries to fix this problem. A better approach to fixing this problem is instead of saying something like "You're controlling because you think I'm going to cheat and won't let me hang out with blah blah" say something like..... "You're insecure and think I'm going to cheat etc etc". Think of a replacement word, anything but controlling. 3. After letting him have sex, don't deny sex for extended periods of time - One of two things.... He will cheat or he will leave. No man is exempt from this rule... Unless of course he's homosexual..... Even they might not lol. 4. Flirting with his Buddies or Family Members - Lol, you're asking for immediate ejection. Just don't. 5. Telling sensitive relationship information to the public or anyone else outside of him - Deadly.... When it gets back to him, he will be pissed off that someone else got insight on his failures. 6. Going on a break or "need space" mode - So childish, and stupid. Men will generally react in two different ways.... One they'll actually leave you alone and go on a sex spree, two they'll actually try to get you back and go on a sex spree while you think you're manipulating him. Lol. 7. Lying to him, especially on something trivial - If he catches you lying, it will always be in the back of his head 20 years from now that you are willing to lie to him. 8. You have a male best friend / or close-friend - Lol, just don't date any guys with masculinity. Date a passive guy and you should be good. Sooner or later most guys will become possessive and controlling in this situation because they feel vulnerable. 9. Physically Assaulting him - Pffftttt, be prepared for whatever's coming back at you.
smackie9 Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 You have been dating or know a lot of stupid ladies. 4
PogoStick Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 Wow. Really, your girls don't know this stuff? You should add: if you really like a guy, don't kick him in the balls. 7
rocketman122 Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 some on the list are legit, some less. some have variations and some can also be said for the men. 1
Siquijor Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 1. It's never been said to me but I can imagine it wouldn't go down too well 2. This has never happened but then again I'm not controlling so I can't really comment. 3. BS. I was with a woman who had endometriosis and went without sex for extended periods and I never left her or cheated on her because of it. 4. Totally agree 5. Agree, although it's more about the lack of respect than anything. 6. People need space and it's immature of someone not to be able to understand this. 7. I don't think it's a big problem if it's trivial. 8. She shouldn't be 'dating' anyone else regardless of their physique. 9. Worst thing on this list a woman could do IMO
fitnessfan365 Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 So in other words, all this stuff has happened to you OP and you just felt like venting? 1
Author inigele14u Posted September 20, 2015 Author Posted September 20, 2015 So in other words, all this stuff has happened to you OP and you just felt like venting? Only number 2 happened to me , utterly disappointed. I usually go on yahoo answers and give advice, as well as talk to women around my area. These are the things women in general just struggle understanding lol. Some of these can apply to men. God bless :bunny:
Author inigele14u Posted September 20, 2015 Author Posted September 20, 2015 1. It's never been said to me but I can imagine it wouldn't go down too well 2. This has never happened but then again I'm not controlling so I can't really comment. 3. BS. I was with a woman who had endometriosis and went without sex for extended periods and I never left her or cheated on her because of it. 4. Totally agree 5. Agree, although it's more about the lack of respect than anything. 6. People need space and it's immature of someone not to be able to understand this. 7. I don't think it's a big problem if it's trivial. 8. She shouldn't be 'dating' anyone else regardless of their physique. 9. Worst thing on this list a woman could do IMO Hey bud, so your # 3. Of course, I should have added unless she has a medical condition or good reasoning. But, I'm sure you could figure that out lol. Your # 6, yes some people need space but women tend to use this as a manipulative tool. And men tend to use this as a time to go wild, it just happens from what I observed. There's a slim chance to keep most men 100% faithful to a women during this "break/space". Your # 7, well it varies according to the guy I assume. Thanks for your reply
Buddhist Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 Wow OP you really made men sound like feeble, ego-driven children. Awesome. 3
Author inigele14u Posted September 20, 2015 Author Posted September 20, 2015 You mean, don't be a jerk. How was her comment mean?
Author inigele14u Posted September 20, 2015 Author Posted September 20, 2015 Wow. Really, your girls don't know this stuff? You should add: if you really like a guy, don't kick him in the balls. Yeah, that's what it comes down to bro. Lol
Author inigele14u Posted September 20, 2015 Author Posted September 20, 2015 Wow OP you really made men sound like feeble, ego-driven children. Awesome. Cause we are? Lol. You mad bro?
ExpatInItaly Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 I feel like these are fairly self-evident. At least, I'd hope they would be.
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