RoxStar Posted May 16, 2005 Posted May 16, 2005 He had a panic attack and tried to call me yesterday but my phone died. I think its a good thing my phone was dead but we ended up talking today. I know I shouldnt have answered the phone. BAD BAD BAD ROXSTAR... I know... but I did answer nonetheless and we talked for a while about his panic attack from yesterday and about his depression and other issues. We talked a little bit about us and he again asked me to be friends and I again said no. We had this same conversation with him last Monday. I am not going to be his friend. He is nuts to think I would want that while he is doing what ever he is doing with his ex gf. So does he want to be my friend just in case things dont work out with his ex gf? Or does he really want to be my friend? In either case I dont really care. He made a comment to me today and to my friend the other day that Rox seems to be moving on and having a good time because I went to the beach with a few girls this weekend. WTF... He did this... Not me...
Merin Posted May 16, 2005 Posted May 16, 2005 Originally posted by RoxStar WTF... He did this... Not me... Yeah BUT You were SUPPOSE to wallow around in misery Wear the same clothes for days on end and not shower Stop eating anything except ice cream Use puffs tissues like they were going the f'ck out of style Stay in your house and not leave Answer the phone on the first ring AND cry every single time he calls begging him to reconsider... You messed up his plans! Hang in there Honey!
outdated Posted May 16, 2005 Posted May 16, 2005 So does he want to be my friend just in case things dont work out with his ex gf? Or does he really want to be my friend? Who cares? You don't get a name like roxstar waiting around for stupid boys who do stupid things. You told him you don't want to be friends. He doesn't listen. Go back to NC. You know that's what has to happen, so let it happen. Unless, of course, you secretly want him back.....
Author RoxStar Posted May 16, 2005 Author Posted May 16, 2005 Originally posted by outdated You don't get a name like roxstar waiting around for stupid boys who do stupid things. You told him you don't want to be friends. RIGHT ON! I know I am a RoxStar... I just get so annoyed.... Unless, of course, you secretly want him back..... No I do not want him back. Thats why I dont want to be his friend. I started to end this all in the end of March and it took a while to detach from it but I am moving on...and like MERIN said... I have ruined his plans because I am not at home pining away for him...
outdated Posted May 16, 2005 Posted May 16, 2005 Originally posted by RoxStar I have ruined his plans because I am not at home pining away for him... That's a great feeling to have. When my ex found out yesterday that I was talking to someone new, even though she dumped me I could hear the wind blown out of her sails. And it was a text message! Unlike you however, I still want my ex- she is very special to me. She continues to tell me, without me asking, that "it's for the best." Who is she trying to convince, me or herself. I guess we'll never know. She still hasn't come up with a good reason, so I told her to just keep telling herself that until she believes it, 'cause i've had no choice but to.
alphamale Posted May 16, 2005 Posted May 16, 2005 institute total NC and after 2 or 3 months he'll come crawling back. And i mean TOTAL NC.
Author RoxStar Posted May 16, 2005 Author Posted May 16, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale institute total NC and after 2 or 3 months he'll come crawling back. And i mean TOTAL NC. The thing is... I dont want him back... I am actually kind of over all of it (almost over it I guess seeing as I go get annoyed still by his BS...) So have you gone crawling back to that girl you stopped seeing last year? Or has she coming crawling back? I cant remember who instituted NC in your sitch...
alphamale Posted May 16, 2005 Posted May 16, 2005 Originally posted by RoxStar Or has she coming crawling back? I cant remember who instituted NC in your sitch... yaah she did come back. I had sex with her sat nite. We were apart for almost 6 months. Sent her flowers today.
whichwayisup Posted May 16, 2005 Posted May 16, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale Sent her flowers today. GOOD for you!
Naive Posted May 16, 2005 Posted May 16, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale yaah she did come back. I had sex with her sat nite. We were apart for almost 6 months. Sent her flowers today. Aren't you a happy little camper? Is this the same chick that you missed for Valentine's Day?
mixwell Posted May 17, 2005 Posted May 17, 2005 Sounds like things are going your way alpha !! So you were broken up for 6 months ? or you did NC for 6 months ??
alphamale Posted May 17, 2005 Posted May 17, 2005 Originally posted by ~Naive~ Is this the same chick that you missed for Valentine's Day? Yes, NAIVE. Originally posted by mixwell So you were broken up for 6 months ? or you did NC for 6 months ?? Both MIXWELL. The NC was total, as in like not contact what so ever for > 5 months.
Author RoxStar Posted May 18, 2005 Author Posted May 18, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale yaah she did come back. I had sex with her sat nite. We were apart for almost 6 months. Sent her flowers today. CHA CHA... go ALPHA!
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