disbelief Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 Hey all. My GF of 3.5 years whom i have a son with broke it off 2 months ago and it seems im still in as much pain as i was one day 1. I think i have finally accepted that its over but only a short time ago, so even though it been 2 months its really only been a few days in my mind. it doesn't help that she has been around and we have hugged and I even had my hands on her etc. I always have to see her because of our son. im pretty sure there's another guy in the picture which is killing me inside as well. i just want our family back together. my brain just wont bloody let it go. so much fear about the future and how this is all going to work out. i hate the fact that my son will have a different man in his life eventually etc. im just a huge mess and need some insight on how to let this go and move on. any help will be greatly appreciated.
edgygirl Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 Sorry you're going through this. Must be really hard when you have a child together. Why did you guys break up?
lolablue17 Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 Sorry you're going through this. Must be really hard when you have a child together. Why did you guys break up? He already answered - Another guy.
edgygirl Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 Kind of... He already answered - Another guy. He says: im pretty sure there's another guy in the picture which is killing me inside as well. So the actual reason for the break up was not explained. I guess I am asking what did she say when breaking up, etc, to have a clearer picture of what happened and perhaps we can be more able to help him heal.
Marc878 Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 You don't have much of an option. If she left for another she would have to want to come back. You need to do the 180 (stop all contact except for your kid) and work on yourself. Get a gym membership, take classes, better your education, etc to help take your mind of it. Don't beg or act like a damn doormat for her. You're young, prepare yourself for a better life. Move on. She has.
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