adiamond Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 When my ex. posted a picture where he was on a date with another girl, at the restaurant he took me for our first date, a week after telling me that we might get back together because he thought I was a wonderful girl.. I deleted him off my messaging app to prevent any more painful events lol. But I felt such a strong urge to date again and try to "top" him and make it seems like I was more happy (even though on the inside it was still painful). (e.g. posting pictures of me doing other things) At this point, I think that it really shouldn't be a "race" to who can be "happier" first. This time is really about doing things you love, one step at a time, at the pace you want to move. I really have no one to prove other than myself, that I am enough, that I am strong, and there is nothing wrong with me. He may have broken my heart but, he deserves to be happy just as much as I. This time is really about setting goals for what I want to accomplish for the rest of this year and how to make my dreams come true, and not how to get back at him. I think that it's normal to feel upset and sad, almost even frustrated that I'm not already moved on from these feelings, and I shouldn't be so hard on myself. I'm just posting my feelings on here as a journal and I like any opinions as well.
Protec Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 My ex dumped me. Now she is constantly bragging "i feel so great!" and sends me selfies, sends me pictures of her sitting in a bar. "have i lost weight", "oh there are so many handsome guys here <3". I have no idea. People are weird. They dump you...still they brag how "they are better off without you". I don't get it. Just let em be.
Author adiamond Posted September 19, 2015 Author Posted September 19, 2015 My ex dumped me. Now she is constantly bragging "i feel so great!" and sends me selfies, sends me pictures of her sitting in a bar. "have i lost weight", "oh there are so many handsome guys here <3". I have no idea. People are weird. They dump you...still they brag how "they are better off without you". I don't get it. Just let em be. They be like, let me break your heart and then try my best to keep slashing open the wound and throwing salt in it lol. My ex. never sent me any pics and stuff and I honestly don't think he was trying to hurt me when he changed his messaging app picture to the date pictures. He honestly, probably thought he looks like hot stuff in that picture and was like, oh I look hot in this, lemme just make it my profile picture. That's just his personality.
LoveIsMyReligion Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 Sounds like you're on the rollercoaster of recovery. I'll give it a day or two and you will be posting how much you hate him? Seriously though keep it up, the only person you need in-order to be happy is yourself. Eventually someone else will come along when you are happy as a single independent person.
Author adiamond Posted September 19, 2015 Author Posted September 19, 2015 Sounds like you're on the rollercoaster of recovery. I'll give it a day or two and you will be posting how much you hate him? Seriously though keep it up, the only person you need in-order to be happy is yourself. Eventually someone else will come along when you are happy as a single independent person. True dat. Just yesterday I was like, OMG HE IS SO BAD. I CAN'T BELIEVE HE'S DATING SOMEONE ALREADY /rage lol
Blanco Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 My ex dumped me. Now she is constantly bragging "i feel so great!" and sends me selfies, sends me pictures of her sitting in a bar. "have i lost weight", "oh there are so many handsome guys here <3". I have no idea. People are weird. They dump you...still they brag how "they are better off without you". I don't get it. Just let em be. An ex who did this to me wouldn't have a chance to send more than one or two of that type of message, because their number would've been blocked by then.
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