randompersonlmao Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 me and this guy have had a thing going on for the past few months (like 2 or 3) and i really like him and he likes me too and we started off by just hanging out and talking and getting to know each other. today he told me he wanted to kiss me but i told him "monday... i promise" (today is friday) and now i feel like i messed up because he looked pretty upset. btw: the reason i didn't kiss him was because 1. i was nervous , 2. the kiss would've been rushed because he had to go and i wanted our first kiss together to have a little more meaning then just something quick like that. should i have kissed him?
todreaminblue Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 no...never feel bad for saying no......you werent ready...if you were ready you would have let it happen......and you would have wanted it to happen...you didnt want to kiss then...and thats ok....he will get over it if he truly cares....best wishes.deb
d0nnivain Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 Under the conditions you described, no. But do kiss him on Monday. 1
MissBee Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 You didn't have to kiss him if you didn't want to, but admittedly it's a little strange to pre-plan a kiss for a specific day in the future. 2
craw Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 Under the conditions you described, no. But do kiss him on Monday. Well said! Something like that has to happen naturally.
loverboy69 Posted September 21, 2015 Posted September 21, 2015 me and this guy have had a thing going on for the past few months (like 2 or 3) and i really like him and he likes me too and we started off by just hanging out and talking and getting to know each other. today he told me he wanted to kiss me but i told him "monday... i promise" (today is friday) and now i feel like i messed up because he looked pretty upset. btw: the reason i didn't kiss him was because 1. i was nervous , 2. the kiss would've been rushed because he had to go and i wanted our first kiss together to have a little more meaning then just something quick like that. should i have kissed him? I would have kissed him on Friday. Even if it was short kissing is one of those things you don't plan. It just happens. It's natural. You were nervous. It's okay. We've all been there. Next time just let it flow and enjoy!
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