I don't like my ex anymore

[justsounsure]

I love her.

 

But I don't like her.

 

I don't like her values.

 

I don't like the fact that she is capable of abandoning me.

 

I don't like that when we did distance, she neglected our relationship.

 

I don't like that she makes snap decisions about damn near everything in life, and that she seems to find stability to be smothering.

 

I don't like her sense of humor at times.

 

I don't like her lack of efficient communication.

 

I don't like how mean and distant she is when she's drunk.

 

I don't like how often she is drunk.

 

I don't like the choices she has made since our breakup.

 

I don't like the people she chooses to hang around.

 

I don't like how she seems to be lacking a mind of her own.

 

I don't like how much time she wastes, yet she preaches to "live in the moment".

 

I don't like the strange pictures she posts of herself.

 

I don't like the choices she has made in the past (or the present, for that matter).

 

I don't like the ominous secrecy she seems to have about herself.

 

I just ... I don't like her. I also don't like how much I love her. I just want that to go away.

Edited September 19, 2015 by justsounsure

[lchf]

So you like the attention she gave you but not who she is in reality.

 

This is a reflection on YOU dude. The people we interact with and the way they treat us are a window into who were are and how we perceive ourselves. I don't believe you can truly "love" this girl. Move on from this chick because she sounds toxic as hell. Improve yourself (start lifting weights, carve out your career, immerse yourself in your passions, improve you social circle) and one day you will look back wondering what you were even doing with this person.

[Samuel_22]

I love her.

 

But I don't like her.

 

I don't like her values.

 

I don't like the fact that she is capable of abandoning me.

 

I don't like that when we did distance, she neglected our relationship.

 

I don't like that she makes snap decisions about damn near everything in life, and that she seems to find stability to be smothering.

 

I don't like her sense of humor at times.

 

I don't like her lack of efficient communication.

 

I don't like how mean and distant she is when she's drunk.

 

I don't like how often she is drunk.

 

I don't like the choices she has made since our breakup.

 

I don't like the people she chooses to hang around.

 

I don't like how she seems to be lacking a mind of her own.

 

I don't like how much time she wastes, yet she preaches to "live in the moment".

 

I don't like the strange pictures she posts of herself.

 

I don't like the choices she has made in the past (or the present, for that matter).

 

I don't like the ominous secrecy she seems to have about herself.

 

I just ... I don't like her. I also don't like how much I love her. I just want that to go away.

Your post hit me soooo bad man...it hit me in the head....it is as if it is my own post here...well guess what? You are healing fast, it is just the matter of time before you say I don't love her anymore either...trust me, you have cut your losses perfectly well...it is just the matter of time now!!!