kevin smithy Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 Hey guys. you guys can be completely honest here, hell even blow me up. my ex broke up with me since july, i tried to make things work she saysshe doesnt want our reationship anymore, she doesnt love me anymore. we were together for 3 years and she dropped this on me outta nowhere. she blocked me on everything but she checks my fb. im sure of that. i never got to say what i wanted to after the break up. i just tried to get her back and she doesnt want that. so i was thinking if i should put this on my fb so she will see and know how i feel, cause after she dumped me it was too easy for her, and hell for me. so i was thinking of putting this.. why say you love me when you never really did? why say you'll always love me when you just gave up on me? why did u give up on me and us so easily ? why throw away everything we had? why make me think that we had a future together? why drop me like nothing now, like i never existed?? just why?? So lay it on me guys. i just feel as if i need to get this off my chest. should i do it or not?
menyou Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 No and no. I'm sure it would make her feel great to see that you are *still* hurting over her. Don't give her that power. 3
Smthn_Like_Olivia Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 DON'T DO IT!! Let this go. To you this seems "all of sudden", but its really not. You were just blind to what was happening, and if you put yourself out there on social media like this, you can never take it back and you will always regret it. Women don't just go void of feelings for someone. I would almost bet money that she is seeing someone else, and that is why she was able to completely cut you off so quickly. Her focus is on someone else. Let this go and focus on you and move on. 1
Author kevin smithy Posted September 19, 2015 Author Posted September 19, 2015 No and no. I'm sure it would make her feel great to see that you are *still* hurting over her. Don't give her that power. Thank you.. idk wtf i was thinking. screw her, she aint getting nothing from me. 2
Author kevin smithy Posted September 19, 2015 Author Posted September 19, 2015 DON'T DO IT!! Let this go. To you this seems "all of sudden", but its really not. You were just blind to what was happening, and if you put yourself out there on social media like this, you can never take it back and you will always regret it. Women don't just go void of feelings for someone. I would almost bet money that she is seeing someone else, and that is why she was able to completely cut you off so quickly. Her focus is on someone else. Let this go and focus on you and move on. Definitely not gonna send it. i will be happy without her, i aint giving her any satisfaction whatsoever. to hell with her . she lost alot more than i did. thank you.
katiegrl Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 Yeah agree with the others, but just wondering what you were hoping to accomplish by sending it? Just to get it off your chest...or was there some deeper reason perhaps?
Author kevin smithy Posted September 19, 2015 Author Posted September 19, 2015 Yeah agree with the others, but just wondering what you were hoping to accomplish by sending it? Just to get it off your chest...or was there some deeper reason perhaps? Just to get it off my chest because I never gave her much problems about the break up. I just tired really hard to get back with her and talk and work things out. She didn't want that. She played me like a fool becaise i was srs about her. Introduced her to my fam. Now she just drops me and forgets me like im nothing??? After 3 years. It bothers me. But not anymore. Im through with her and idc anymore.
Author kevin smithy Posted September 19, 2015 Author Posted September 19, 2015 I mean she just gave up on us so easy. she never said hey kevin we need to talk. or lets meet up i wanna talk .. only she knew when things got bad and she never told me. just broke up with me and left me there after 3 years. Thats what bothers me alsp. She never tried. good to know though, makes moving on so much better knowing she never deserved me.
rocketman122 Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 I feel for you Kevin. talk with your best friend and let it out that way. leave it be. she doesnt care. she didnt fight for you. you put in effort and she was with the same mindset.
menyou Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 Just think of the fact that you got it off your chest and wrote it here and received some positive support as an accomplishment.
bubbaganoosh Posted September 19, 2015 Posted September 19, 2015 [quote=kevin smithy;6552381 why say you love me when you never really did? why say you'll always love me when you just gave up on me? why did u give up on me and us so easily ? why throw away everything we had? why make me think that we had a future together? why drop me like nothing now, like i never existed?? just why?? So lay it on me guys. i just feel as if i need to get this off my chest. should i do it or not? You got 7 questions there. If by chance she answered all of them, your still not getting her back...............but you'll have 7 or 8 more questions. It's a never ending thing. I know that from experience so leave it alone, move on or you'll never get past it.
Author kevin smithy Posted September 20, 2015 Author Posted September 20, 2015 I feel for you Kevin. talk with your best friend and let it out that way. leave it be. she doesnt care. she didnt fight for you. you put in effort and she was with the same mindset. Yes i did and it doesnt mean anything to her. im glad shes gone, having her in my life was good but she clearly wants nothing with me, and i dont want anything with her.
menyou Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 You're allowed to have moments of weakness. Glad you posted about it here before sending it
Gaeta Posted September 20, 2015 Posted September 20, 2015 kevin you need to understand something. Once the relationship is over, anything that was said before, doesn't count any longer. Love dies, unfortunately. There are people who loved each other so much they got married and had children together, still their love died, it happens. When she told you she loved you she felt it and believed it, that's why she said it. Not it's gone. You're only choice is to accept it. 1
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