silentfears Posted May 16, 2005 Posted May 16, 2005 It's been two months since we last went out. He says he's been busy and I believe him coz despite his busy schedule, he makes the effort to keep in touch via sms or a phone call at least once in two days. The last time we were together, he said that he doesn't trust me because he thinks I slept with another man behind his back. He actually tailed me the night I went to see a friend in the middle of the night. I've tried my best to explain that I didn't.... and I really didn't. I had fallen for him, though I did not tell him that till now. I wrote him a long letter detailing everything from the first day we met, to each wonderful date we've been on, to that crazy night which led us to have a huge quarrel, and my thoughts and feelings everyday since. His response was that he would like to talk about 'us' ........ after he gets his work out of the way. I've been counting the days till the day we are supposed to meet up to talk and I've gotta endure the next four days. I've got a whole farm of butterflies in my stomach. I asked for the 'talk' coz I want us to open all our cards and resolve this. I've asked myself a thousand times if I love him...... the answer is yes! Now my fear is that he would meet up with me just to tell me that he wants nothing to do me anymore. Sigh! No matter what the outcome will be, I would rather face it than sit and wonder if he was ever 'The One'.
clynn Posted May 19, 2005 Posted May 19, 2005 good for you going to figure it out! What is the history? have you posted on this before?
st8toftheheart Posted May 19, 2005 Posted May 19, 2005 Originally posted by silentfears He actually tailed me the night I went to see a friend in the middle of the night. I've tried my best to explain that I didn't.... and I really didn't. Ok, so I get this right, you went to see a friend in the middle of the night?? Like are we talking about dinner or we talking about headin over to their place at 11:00 or 1:00 am? To be fair, I'd be suspiscous too. But again I woud be even more suspiscious if I already had suspicision. Know what I mean? For him to tail you means he had some idea that something was amiss, and for him to tail you on the exact same night as you decide to see a friend in the middle of the night is even odder. Don't get me wrong, I'm not accusing you of cheating or lieing, but I'm just showing you that your actions may not give him the comfort he's looking for and you need to find out why he wasn't comfortable to begin with. Hope this helps. Mass
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