lt32 Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 I wrote it for her every day I feel the lack of you the missing touch the haunting smell the wounded heart the stinging tear the broken want the silence washes over me I miss you with every breath in every thought within every waking dream I always will I'm sorry for every hurt for every scar for being here even now
Author lt32 Posted September 17, 2015 Author Posted September 17, 2015 lol. thanks. at least I went here first for a change
thejabberwocky Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 No, this is called desperate and creepy. Sorry. Sounds like you're a mess. You should try doing NC for 60 days so that when you do speak to her, you won't be so emotional and come off as crazy.
Author lt32 Posted September 17, 2015 Author Posted September 17, 2015 yeah. I've known her for 20 years, but I haven't sent anything like this yet. just miss her. plus I'm drunk
gbe2015 Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 +1 to the 60 day NC. I was writing stuff like that too and went 60 days no contact. I look back at it now and just shake my head in disbelief. It's hard. Really hard. But worth it. You'll wake up one day and see a world full of opportunity and options.
Oregon_Dude Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 but I am a messDon't let her know that. Fake it till you make it. Once you make it, then you can respond if she texts you with a "Doing well, thanks!" 1
gbe2015 Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 I looked at it this way. I had a girl that liked me 100%. Then she liked me 0%. So in a world with about 3 billion woman I was sure I could find a woman, who even if she mildly detested me, would like me 30-40% so I would still be better off If a person doesn't want to be with you. Go no contact. Go find one who does want to be with you. They're everywhere 1
Author lt32 Posted September 17, 2015 Author Posted September 17, 2015 yeah, I know I have to stop. I managed to leave things where she talks to me, but I know I have to stop now. so bad
Draper Posted September 18, 2015 Posted September 18, 2015 Be careful with the drinking too man, first night after I got dumped I got ****faced and regretted some of the things I said to her. I haven't been drinking much cause I'm scared I'll cave and break NC if I do. That's why I've been sticking to pot and tobacco for a bit, but there are plenty of healthier coping mechanisms..
Marc878 Posted September 18, 2015 Posted September 18, 2015 Kinda vague on what the relationship was.
Craftydre Posted September 18, 2015 Posted September 18, 2015 Don't listen to these guys. Send it right now don't even hesitate. Word for word send it and post response here !!!! Quick!
Author lt32 Posted September 18, 2015 Author Posted September 18, 2015 Kinda vague on what the relationship was. first dated when we were 16. on and off over the next 20 years and love really developed. I know she told me things she hasn't told anyone. Last time was 6 years ago, she begged me for another chance. I fell for it. Thing is, she really loved me. I could feel it but her ex wouldn't go away and I let doubts from the past make me question everything. He was in the picture when she broke up with me last time though. Think I am just a security blanket who wants to think I am worth more
Author lt32 Posted September 18, 2015 Author Posted September 18, 2015 Don't listen to these guys. Send it right now don't even hesitate. Word for word send it and post response here !!!! Quick! Lol. What is your angle? I had doubts or I wouldn't have come here first. This heart on my sleeve **** hasn't made any difference as far as I can tell.
Craftydre Posted September 18, 2015 Posted September 18, 2015 Lol. What is your angle? I had doubts or I wouldn't have come here first. This heart on my sleeve **** hasn't made any difference as far as I can tell. What is my angle? My angle is that if she loves you then by saying that she should give you a chance and you will get a response now instead of playing games and going no contact because no contact is for u and her to move on. She eill forget about you, be with other guys, and come back months later BUT YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO DO SOME TH NG NOW. Do it and if you fail THEN GO NO CONTACT. Give it a shot atleast
thejabberwocky Posted September 18, 2015 Posted September 18, 2015 What is my angle? My angle is that if she loves you then by saying that she should give you a chance and you will get a response now instead of playing games and going no contact because no contact is for u and her to move on. She eill forget about you, be with other guys, and come back months later BUT YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO DO SOME TH NG NOW. Do it and if you fail THEN GO NO CONTACT. Give it a shot atleast No. If you send that, not only will it make you look creepy and desperate, she will show it to all of her friends and if later on you try to get back together, they will remind her of her crazy loser ex. DO NOT SEND IT. Do 60 days NC and if you still think it's a good idea after that, you can send it then.
darkbloom Posted September 18, 2015 Posted September 18, 2015 I'm not even sure if this is supposed to be poetry or a love letter or creepy. Don't send that. Yikes.
mightycpa Posted September 18, 2015 Posted September 18, 2015 What is "the haunting smell"? It's like you're saying she's left her BO on your furniture or something. Don't send it.
Author lt32 Posted September 18, 2015 Author Posted September 18, 2015 I didn't. the liquor wore off. Just had a long vague talk instead
Luke22 Posted September 18, 2015 Posted September 18, 2015 Don't send it. It'll only set you back. Put it away and read it when this all blows over. You'll see it in a different light. Begging, pleading, poems like that are only going to hurt your recovery. Focus on you. Recovery is all about you, not about the ex.
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