Author Lovelorn00 Posted September 17, 2015 Author Posted September 17, 2015 However, if i were you, i'd text him and let him know you had a great time, and suggest hanging out again soon if he would like, there's nothing to lose here. I did. Last night, after he left, he texted me immediately when he got home to let me know he arrived safely ( I didn't ask him to do this). I replied that I was glad he made it home and that I had an awesome time. I also added that I needed to work on the kissing thing. That’s when he laughed and said that he understands, because he gets nervous about that stuff too. “Next time!” he replied, and then we said our goodnights. Sigh. RIP, short little relationship that made me so hopeful. RIP, my friend.
jam.over.jelly Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 I did. Last night, after he left, he texted me immediately when he got home to let me know he arrived safely ( I didn't ask him to do this). I replied that I was glad he made it home and that I had an awesome time. I also added that I needed to work on the kissing thing. That’s when he laughed and said that he understands, because he gets nervous about that stuff too. “Next time!” he replied, and then we said our goodnights. Sigh. RIP, short little relationship that made me so hopeful. RIP, my friend. Wait hold up, he even said "next time". This guy obviously likes you, why are you here being upset about not knowing what's up with him? 1
sid3 Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 Wait hold up, he even said "next time". This guy obviously likes you, why are you here being upset about not knowing what's up with him? Duh! Because she's a girl and bat shyt crazy. I mean that in the nice way 2
jam.over.jelly Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 Duh! Because she's a girl and bat shyt crazy. I mean that in the nice way I have to agree though. OP, you seem very insecure:(. I wish you the best of luck but at the same time, just relax, be yourself, and tread carefully. 1
Author Lovelorn00 Posted September 17, 2015 Author Posted September 17, 2015 Duh! Because she's a girl and bat shyt crazy. I mean that in the nice way Hahaha! No, for real. This is pretty accurate. I will be the first to admit this is true. haha!
Author Lovelorn00 Posted September 17, 2015 Author Posted September 17, 2015 Wait hold up, he even said "next time". This guy obviously likes you, why are you here being upset about not knowing what's up with him? Because a) I'm a woman who loves consistency. His silence today is inconsistent behavior, which usually means that something is up. And b) I think he was just being nice. He usually asks me out or tells me he wants to see me again before the date is even over. That didn't happen this time.
jam.over.jelly Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 or c) because you're being insecure, overthinking it and playing games. 2
Celeste.Carol Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 You need to kiss the guy passionately if you are into him and he is into you. The 'kiss' and sparks of chemistry is what begins a relationship regardless if the people are dull, boring, or exciting. He may think if he invests long term, you may become someone who never wants intimacy and withholds it after awhile. It is a kiss not sex!
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