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I drew her a picture, now shes ignoring me


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I have a friend on facebook who we share mutual friends with. Ive never met her in person. I have just started doing an art course and decided to ask her whether i could do a portrait drawing of her because i find her photogenic. She agreed, once i had completed the drawing i said that she could have it for free as im still newish to drawing people. We then started arranging to meet up so i could give her the drawing. Its about this time that she started ignoring my facebook messages. She eventually told me that her messenger had been playing up but still wanted to meet me. I replied asking if there was another way to contact her. She did not reply to this. I resorted to messaging one of her friends. She said she would inform the girl that i was finding it difficult to contact her. Then when i messaged back asking if she had heard anything and if i could have her number. The friend blocked me. So i dont know what to do with the drawing now. The girl i drew sounded like she really wanted the picture. I do know here she works so i could go in to give it her there. Any suggestions?

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Nothing, let it go. Keep the drawing for your portfolio, or, throw it away. Either way, doesn't look like she'll be getting it. Don't reach out, it can only come off worse.

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No. She saw through your ploy of drawing her just to have an excuse to meet up with her, and she isn't interested, so she blocked you.

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No. She saw through your ploy of drawing her just to have an excuse to meet up with her, and she isn't interested, so she blocked you.

 

THIS ^

 

Sorry OP. :(

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The girl i drew a picture for didnt block me, it was her friend. Also it was her that asked about meeting up.

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You told her that she could have it, then you added "for free" as if you were doing her a favor. It was your idea to draw it, charging her never should have even entered your mind. Sounds cheesy the way you came across.

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The girl i drew a picture for didnt block me, it was her friend. Also it was her that asked about meeting up.

 

She ignored your messages and told you it was messed up, trying not to just say to your face, "Not interested." Her friend is backing her up so you can't use her to get next to the girl. She isn't the least bit interested. She saw through your ploy once you tried to meet up with her and it's a "no." So leave her alone now. There's plenty of fish in the sea. There's no mistake here and she's left no opening, other than she doesn't like being very direct, as most girls don't.

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