Siquijor Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 Bunsen burners immediately spring to mind but in this sense I would say one word - connection.
Yummm Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 Connection for sure - somebody who you can speak to and smile, somebody who you can have a flowing conversation without the $hitty awkward silence and 'what do I say next'?
PrettyEmily77 Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 Instant, mutual attraction at all levels (mental, emotional, physical) that has strong potential to be nurtured into something meaningful and long-lasting; from recent experience 4
regine_phalange Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 When the interaction with someone is exciting!
Tribble Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 When you want to spend time with that person - like really want to and you feel like you've known them for ages. Connection and no awkwardness like someone else said. I think you can have chemistry with all sorts of people, not just romantic partners. I know there's been people in my life I've felt that instant comfortableness with, without romantic interest (e.g. female friends). Add chemistry to a little romantic spark and you're away. 1
JulFor9 Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 When you smile always and feel happiness in your inner side.
Toodaloo Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 Connection on mental and physical levels. That moment when you reach out for their hand and find that the other was also reaching out at the same time... Those moments when you both say the same thing at the same time or know exactly how to tease each other to make each other laugh. Those moments when you look across the room and smile to each other.
MissBee Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 Clicking with someone, where I immediately feel comfortable, it's not awkward, we can talk and laugh and flirt with ease, there is sexual attraction and it leads to me wanting more. So for example: when I have a good date, it's a date where there is chemistry. We can talk, laugh, there is instant comfort, it's easy to get along and the time seems to fly by, there is also an excited feeling in my stomach where I want to know more and I'm already thinking when can we see each other again. Touching is also a part of it where when there is chemistry I find that we'll be magnetically drawn towards touching each other, whether touches on the arms or hands while talking, maybe he'll touch my hair, hand holding, and definitely kissing will often come up at some point. No chemistry: we either don't get along at all, it's awkward, I feel like I'm pulling teeth, I'm watching the time and already thinking about how much I will never see them again. Or, it can simply be they are fine and we may even talk and laugh but I'm just not fully comfortable and there is no underlying romantic, sexual or excited feelings attached to our interactions and certainly not much touching and no kissing. 1
Trane Posted September 17, 2015 Posted September 17, 2015 Describe what chemistry is to you... Chemistry in dating is BS to me, pure and pure. If you like someone, you like someone, if you don't you, you don't. You can't control who you like either. That's it. Dating is not a science class where references to textbooks or the periodic table is the focus my of pleasure.
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