SSM3 Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 (edited) Ok ladies, I have a quick question for you. I've recently met a new lady who I quite like. Do you ladies like surprises or would you rather just know what is lined up for you? Edited September 16, 2015 by SSM3 Wrong question
Got it Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 Depends on the surprise. But it is going to vary by person. What does SHE like? 1
Gloria25 Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 Like Got It said, it depends on the woman... I mean, I think all women like surprises. For me, it doesn't have to be like "wow"... Like a guy bringing home flowers for me and/or flowers on a date. It is a nice gesture and isn't over the top. I think it's the "little" things that matter. Like, let's say it's same o'l same o'l at the home with wifey. Well, take time off of work, come home early, send the kids to the baby sitter...wash up the dishes, cook (or get take out) and greet her at the door with flowers, dinner on the table and candles all over the house...And, do it on a day that isn't an "anniversary, B-day, V-day, or whatever". I mean, sometimes I am listening to music and if I had a SO, I'd just ask him to romantically slow dance with me. I think that's a nice "surprise". When dating, it can be a little more difficult cuz yeah, until you get to know that person - it's hard to "surprise" them. But, even when dating, IMO, it's the little things that count - like bringing flowers. But then again, not too many women appreciate a gentleman now a days and might laugh at you and/or consider you a wimp if you bring flowers You can even surprise dates and/or a SO like let's say "kissing". On the date, when she least expects it, you can lean in for a gentle kiss - but the way you do it can catch her by "surprise" in an interesting way. Or, let's say you don't spell out date ideas...You just tell her: "This Saturday, meet me at the park" and you show up with a picnic basket, and surprise her with a picnic and walk in the park. Going out on a Sat nite? Play a game...ask her, like what do you wanna do "fast or slow" and let's say she says "fast" - then take her to like a cool diner followed by roller skating or vice/versa. If she says "slow", take her out to a nice dinner with a small dance floor, then walk on the riverwalk or something. Gee, I wish I had a SO sometimes - I can come up with so many stuff...lol
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