Dating away from "home"?

[conzboneeus]

NY native, 58, male, divorced, not seeing anyone anywhere. Been living in SC for 20 years, own home there, and just took a long term contract for 2-3 years in a large city in upstate NY been here 3 months.

 

Will go back to SC when done no question. I have a 12 yr old grandson, special needs, dad was gone before he was born, and I am helping raise him. He is my #1 priority in life. Fly back every other weekend to see him. At 12 needs male influence and I'm it. Lol, god help him!

 

Anyway I'm honest with the women I meet in my new city, who are usually from online dating. I do tell them on first date. And for the most part the last date! Its possible its just me and and the two aren't connected. But I have dated before and never have had a problem but never was in this situation. Haven't gained weight, or become more or less than the knucklehead I've always been. So thinking my transient status is the problem.

 

I cannot lie and not tell them. Thinking I should put this info in my profile. I know its gonna cut down on replies but why waste their time, and my money, if its a deal breaker? Plus by not saying it in my profile I feel like I'm lying same as if I had phony photos. So I guess I answered my own question. Put it in, hope there is a woman out there who isn't worried about that not like if I don't meet the right one we can't figure something out.

 

Anyone been in similar situation?

 

Thanks.

[menyou]

What exactly are your intentions? Do you hope to meet someone that will move to SC with you? Or have a LDR with? Or just someone temporarily?

[conzboneeus]

Sorry for late reply and thanks. I am looking LTR now so yes, someone who would be willing to go to SC eventually. But also someone to date now....who knows where we'll be in 2 to 3 years.

 

The more I think on it the more I think I should not make a big deal out of it and just say I go back on occasion to see my grandson.