kevin smithy Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 Ex told me she didnt love me in june, we broke up in july.. i have tried to get back with her, did everything that i shouldnt have done, i wasnt aware of the N.C rule at that time and i truly had no one to talk to. truth is i still do love her and wanna be with her but idk if she feels the same. and i think she doesnt cause she dumped me and pretty much jus forgot about me, we talked a little bit after the break up and had some nice friendly convos after. last time italked to her was 2 weeks ago, shes starting college so she messaged me n told me how it was nice there and stuff and she'll be busy alot. i just told her goodnight and enjoy her skl. after that i engaged N.C on her and was hard, i broke it yesterday tho .. i called her, we didnt really talked i just told her i hope skls well and i missed her. she said we can talk later or she might message me. she didnt do either so i jus messaged her and told her i hope we can talk sometime and hope school is good. Im going on strict N.C now, im not gonna ever message her again or call.. by breaking N.C yesterday i kinda understand now that she just doesnt care about me or love me. if she did she would be different. but im not looking for anything with her, and if she does love me and want to be with me, she'll prove it to me. as of now tho, i have washed my hands clean with her.. you guys can ask me more about the relationship if you would like.
drseuss Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 Sorry to hear you've had a break up , it suck every time !! My ex broke with me a couple months ago and it hurt like hell Well done for going into no contact , better late than never , I wouldn't worry about what you did directly after the break up , it will have showed her you care but she won't see it like that for a long time , she will see it as desperate and needy which will push her away but in the distant future she will look back and realise you acted like that because you care . Stay in strict no contact and try your best to remove all access ie social media and her number , you already sound like your doing well and are able to see where you have gone wrong , I doubt she is going to come back anytime soon I'm afraid so it's time to move on
Author kevin smithy Posted September 16, 2015 Author Posted September 16, 2015 Sorry to hear you've had a break up , it suck every time !! My ex broke with me a couple months ago and it hurt like hell Well done for going into no contact , better late than never , I wouldn't worry about what you did directly after the break up , it will have showed her you care but she won't see it like that for a long time , she will see it as desperate and needy which will push her away but in the distant future she will look back and realise you acted like that because you care . Stay in strict no contact and try your best to remove all access ie social media and her number , you already sound like your doing well and are able to see where you have gone wrong , I doubt she is going to come back anytime soon I'm afraid so it's time to move on I really tried hard with her.. she never made an effort with me this year and we had such a great relationship of over 2 years. but one thing i learned, you cannot force love, so its just for me to take it day by day. im just really disappointed that it took her almost 3 years to realise that she didnt love me and want me no more. im hoping to just get her off my mind and thats my goal everyday, to think of her less cause im pretty sure shes doing fine. so its all up to time now to help me heal my wounds and move on.. thank you for the talk.
drseuss Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 You'll be fine in a couple more weeks , the hardest part for me was letting go of the hope I would hear from her , which has only just gone , As long as you have or are trying to accept it's over and it best to find someone else on the future ,the rest will follow in time
Author kevin smithy Posted September 16, 2015 Author Posted September 16, 2015 You'll be fine in a couple more weeks , the hardest part for me was letting go of the hope I would hear from her , which has only just gone , As long as you have or are trying to accept it's over and it best to find someone else on the future ,the rest will follow in time I know i have to do the same. Its just false hope to cling on to this and wai for her when she truly has forgotten me and doesnt care to hear from me. so im hoping that i will get over her soon.
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