exwisdom Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 To make this as short as possible I will try to stay on the last two months events .me and my ex had been dating for about 14 months we've broken up a couple of times she has begged and cried for me to stay with her and I have done the same before. But our last break up she was acting very bitchy and I ended up asking her if she still wanted to be in this relationship or not. She said no so I gave her all her things and she left . 5 days pass no contact I went to her place to smooth things over she said she was done and didn't want to continue the relationship so she gave me back my promise ring and I left . She then text me a few days later "I miss you" I felt like being a dick and replied go talk to all the guys your talking to so she says ok and we don't talk for a few days I go to take some more of her things that I had told her I still cared about her etc. 2 days later she asks me for a favor we spend about 5 hours together laughing and hanging out . The next day we end up going to a club and hooking up. She texts me that following day that she's hungry and is bored(hinting that she wanted me to pick her up) I didn't . I asked her to come by my place later that night so she comes around 1030 we hang for a little and I try to kiss her she backs off and tells me no.so ok cool she goes home later and I text her was last night (the sex) just for fun for you ? She says yes and she doesn't want to be with me anymore . Is this person bipolar/nuts or am I missing something here?
PaperCrane Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 Paragraphs are your friend. You guys are split and had an ex sex fling. Not much to understand. Just follow NC.
PegNosePete Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 Is this person bipolar/nuts or am I missing something here? I would say so, yes. And so are you for going along with all of that.
Author exwisdom Posted September 16, 2015 Author Posted September 16, 2015 but if shes over the relationship then why so much back and forth? Why tell me she misses me....comes over my place..hangs out and even sleeps with me then the next day you tell me you dont have any feelings for me anymore. If you end a relationship I would imagine you want nothing to do with this person. The fact that she ended it I understand.. its just the fact that she keeps coming and going. Is she confused about getting back with me or confused about her feelings? Is there much that i can do to get her wanting to be in a relationship with me again. Never been in this situation as Im the male and never had a women act like a guy in these types of situations and for the record we are both 26. So i would say a little to old to be playing all these little games. I even gave her a promise ring which I took back after our breakup but just a month ago this woman was telling me she wanted to have kids with me and was ready to move in
LoveIsMyReligion Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 No man will ever understand what is going on in a woman's head. Good luck.
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