Angeleyez2583 Posted May 15, 2005 Posted May 15, 2005 So proud of myself. I have maintained no contact with the ex for four freakin days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's all I have to say :-) So why does this hurt even more then when I was talking to him? (Maybe cuz when u don't hear/talk to someone when ur used to it at least once a day u start to miss them). Still sticking to my guns tho!
Jadey Posted May 15, 2005 Posted May 15, 2005 Well done. I wos doing NC untill i found out he has a new GF and i text him a very angry txt But i cant fully do NC untill i leave school in a month. Till then i just have to ignore him the best i can but see him. Which i guess is kind of a form of NC ..Maybe! I myself find it alot more painful when i haveta see him or if i contact him. Thats why the weekends are easier for me, cos weekdays i havta face him So when i leave school i will probably be doing NC. When i leave school thats the proper test to see if he misses me. ATM were seeing eachother every day and pratically always around eachother so i guess he foesnt get time to miss me. But the test will be when finaly BOOM im REALLY not there..you know? Stick yo ya guna girlie!!
Author Angeleyez2583 Posted May 15, 2005 Author Posted May 15, 2005 exactly.. when he notices I'm not calling, responding to his IMs etc I think he's gonna miss me. But I'm not going to assume anything, just go on my life without him in it!
outdated Posted May 15, 2005 Posted May 15, 2005 Keep up the good work. I know it's tough. I've been on and off NC and always get confusing signs, so it's best to stick on it until the pain goes away. Good luck!
Marshbear Posted May 15, 2005 Posted May 15, 2005 You have to remember that NC is for you, not for your ex. If you go into it with the expectation that you are punishing them and hope they suffer like you do you will be disappointed. It is so you can deal with your hurt and pain. Seeing them just brings back memories. It takes time to realize you can function without them and you will see them more clearly and your relationship. You will take them off the pedestal that you erected. It is very effective is used in the right way. Just don't do it and expect to get a second chance with them. You rarely get the chance and you will realize that they really aren't worth it. Peace...
Jadey Posted May 16, 2005 Posted May 16, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear You have to remember that NC is for you, not for your ex. If you go into it with the expectation that you are punishing them and hope they suffer like you do you will be disappointed. It is so you can deal with your hurt and pain. Seeing them just brings back memories. It takes time to realize you can function without them and you will see them more clearly and your relationship. You will take them off the pedestal that you erected. It is very effective is used in the right way. Just don't do it and expect to get a second chance with them. You rarely get the chance and you will realize that they really aren't worth it. Peace... I agree. At first i wanted to do NC to punish him and get him back. But now i ahve to see him evry day and i cant wait till i can do NC for ME. Cos it is so hard seeing him acting like he doesnt give a damn wot he done, it hurts really badly and bring back so many memories. But when i dont see him like at weekends its alot easier. So eventho it will be hard and im still going to hurt i know ill hurt less when i leave school, do NC, and have him out of my life. Till then i cant fully move on Only 4 weeks lft now. So to anyone who actually CAN do NC i really do advice it...but do it for you.
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