Arun1910 Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 Title says it all really. I recently got told my a friend that my ex does indeed ask how I am and talk about me sometimes still. Yesterday she asked how I was again and spoke about adding me back after my exams this week. Reason being is that we broke up when I had exams in July as the stress made me argue over something dumb. I can see this as being the only reason why after my exams makes sense because otherwise it would be like square one again. It was really unfortunate how we broke up, she was really sensitive to me but no one else and she just couldn't take it. We weren't in an abusive relationship or cheated on each other. So is the fact she asks about me a good thing, showing she still cares etc?
d0nnivain Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 In a vacuum it means nothing. She may never have stopped caring because she is a kind person. Not hating you & hoping your exams went well doesn't mean she wants you back. If you dumped her & now have control over your stress -- meaning you won't be a jerk next time exams roll around -- I suppose it could be positive sign but I wouldn't count on it. If I were her, I'd assume you will never be able to juggle stress & a relationship. Since life stressors get way more intense then exams, I wouldn't want to risk my future.
Author Arun1910 Posted September 15, 2015 Author Posted September 15, 2015 I understand your point, thanks for your reply. Its just that she knows how it feels. She is one to get very stressed out too and argue but I guess I could take it, and she couldn't. Is it possible she might even see that now this wasn't a huge reason to break up in the first place? It's been 7 weeks since the breakup now.
kendahke Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 I understand your point, thanks for your reply. Its just that she knows how it feels. She is one to get very stressed out too and argue but I guess I could take it, and she couldn't. Is it possible she might even see that now this wasn't a huge reason to break up in the first place? It's been 7 weeks since the breakup now. Those who can, do. Those who can't, talk. She's just talking. To others. About you. That doesn't mean that she wants to get back with you. It just leads you and others to speculate about her motives. Were she talking to you about you and the relationship, that would be a whole different thing--and would be a far more positive sign that she wants to be back with you.
Author Arun1910 Posted September 15, 2015 Author Posted September 15, 2015 Those who can, do. Those who can't, talk. She's just talking. To others. About you. That doesn't mean that she wants to get back with you. It just leads you and others to speculate about her motives. Were she talking to you about you and the relationship, that would be a whole different thing--and would be a far more positive sign that she wants to be back with you. Ah, by no means do I expect her to get back with me, or at least not yet, I don't know the future for us. I just want my friend back if I'm honest.
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