martin1992 Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 Do serial rebounder ever move on? Let me know if you guys are interested in the story.
drseuss Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 can you give a little more information on what exactly you mean , maybe a bit about your situation ?
Author martin1992 Posted September 15, 2015 Author Posted September 15, 2015 Sure, this is just the summary We broke up last october after a 3-4 year relationship, she wanted to go out with another guy (lets call him guy #1) in her grad school. Until then we spent almost everyday together. She dated guy #1 from december till june 2015 until she found another guy Guy #2 from end june till now (i think she has not broken up with him yet) Guy #3 not sure from when but my guess would be end july where they have been on 4 dates...but this guy changed his relationship status (something i never did and she isnt the type to do it either)
drseuss Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 It sounds like she is looking for something she isn't going to find and the problems lie with her not all these guys ,maybe she has issues she hasn't faced or resolved Are you hoping to get back with her , are you in contact ?
Author martin1992 Posted September 15, 2015 Author Posted September 15, 2015 Yeah we are in limited contact. Since beginning July I have meet up with her about 5 times and we have kind of planned another. I am her first boyfriend. She has not been single in over 4 years.
drseuss Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 Well I think you should go into nc for at good month , you are a very easy option for her and she can't be that bothered about you if she see alot of other guys too , By going nc it will allow her to see what it's like to not have you in your life .she clearly wants to be with someone and it's not you or she would be with you, by it sounds like you've always been there as a back up and she knows it , why don't you try and date someone else ? I don't know if in would say she is on the rebound still afyer 2/3 other partners
Author martin1992 Posted September 15, 2015 Author Posted September 15, 2015 Tbh i do not know what defines a rebound relationship. When we met she cried a few times so in my head I assume that she still has unresolved feelings. I am dating other people and infact I got one this friday my main worry is that I am not going to be emotionally ready...she is nice but she reminds me of my ex in a few ways.
Seth0194 Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 She could be just having fun, if she is younger she might be looking for a good time and telling you something different.
Author martin1992 Posted September 15, 2015 Author Posted September 15, 2015 Shes not that type tho, she's 23 the guy shes with now is 22. I think she just doesnt like to be single... Thank you guys, venting my thoughts out helps a quite a lot...
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