Fornax Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 We've met at my friends beach house this summer. I didn't plan to hook up with anyone. It just happened. Instantly when we met and introduced, I've felt the huge chemstry which doesn't happen with me at all. I've realised he was flirting with me and hitting on me too... I played a bit stupid. After haning out with our gang, I've somehow managed to end up alone with him and we hooked up at the house. No one knew that but my best friend. Nex morning I've ignored him like nothing happened and I was avoiding him because we were always going to the beach and around with our gang. We did touched a bit when we managed to end up alone for a few moments. That day after the party, we slept together in the living room. I woked up again first and went for a swim untill everybody else woked up. After hour or two he left to travel around my country. I had to go home. Few days later after I managed things I needed to do at my job, I decided to come back to hang out with my new friends. Just when I drove myself back to the house the guy was leaving. I was a bit sad I texted him something, he didn't reply! Since I was on a vacation, my best friend invited me to visit her abroad after vacations. I said yes and I've went to see my new friends! He was there too. I texted him if he was going out with us this weekend. He was suprised that I have his number and sent me something strange. I was thinking he was not into me at all and that he got mad that i texted him so I've ignored the text. All of us went out. He was there. I had to sit infront of him. I was nice and I said hi. He didn't pay attention to me and he left to hang out with other of his friends. I've felt really stupid! I've met some new guy at the party and started to chat with him. And spent the whole time with that guy and other friends. I ignored him. Couple of times he came next to me and asked me some questions and flirted. I was nice to him, but I don't like players. I ended up kissing with the other new guy, I was drunk and nobody saw us. Since I was drunk. I texted him like where he is? And can we meet, that his new friend is annoying and that I don't like his friend, that I am into him. He asked me where did I went? I ignored him and that text...I was heading home and I saw him infront of the club chatting with some friends. I grabbed him and said hi. He kissed me infront of everybody and told goodbye to our friends. We were heading somewhere but I saw some dark alley and took him there. We were like animals. We were starting to doing it and just when he was suposed to come, I've stopped and asked him if we can go to his house. He said no, I said..then I am going to my hotel. I dont know why I did it. He was angry, I was pissed. I've thought to myself what an *******... I even sent him angry texts on my way to hotel. On my way... I met his good friend from his college. I was drunk and told him what happened, not everything, but I showed him my pissed of texts. His friend became my good friend and he texted him something nice and like it would be smart that he texts me tomorrow. He didn't reply to me or him. We even called him like crazy, like some psychos. That was not my idea, it was his friends! I apologised next morning. He didn't reply. I was fine with that. And told myself like its ok. It was just some summer hook up. After 3 days, I've met him at some party. I was ignoring him at first. Some of his clasmates started to flirt with me and wanted to dance with me. I blew this new guy and grabbed him. So we started to dance. Then I went out to hang out with my other friends from the beach house. He was dancing with some other girls, his friends. Which btw I knew were all taken and engaged After some time he sat next to me and we all chatted. At some point me and him started to make out again in front of everybody. To make long story short. We had sex again and he slept over in my hotel room. Then he needed to go immediatley because he really was late for his improtant classes. We met again at another party. Since I knew all the guys there already and made some good friendships. They same story happened. I was chatting with everybody else but not him much. He did come to me eventually, we did chat for a while. I saw that he was a bit nervous and angry (jelaous) because I've talked to some of his classmates and hanged out with him all night, but in a friendly way. That guy ended up with m best friend later and now they are dating seriously. At one point during that party he told me that I shouldn't be use my flirt skills so often. I told him that I use them only on him. He left home soon. We hugged and that was it. Since I was drunk again. I texted him some funny long text like I just like him and that I am really into him. He did reply with one sentence laughing and replied someting in general. I was pissed. Since I was acting like some teenager. I was basiclly talking to myself on facebook chat. I've thought he might think I am nuts and crazy. Few days later I told him I am leaving the next day and that we could hang out. He didn't say anything untill 6 pm, then he texted me what I was doing. I said I am with my best friend in my hotel apartment having fun. He said that he will come. Meanwhile I had to go out to sort some things out and I was waiting him in the lobby. But since **** always happend. I ran into some cute waiter who knew me. I asked him at the bar for some water because I was thursty. He gave me some shots and a glass of wine. I refused, but he insisted. I texted him i was at the bar waiting for him. He came and saw me with the booze just me and the waiter. He said hi and went upstairs to my room because my friend was there. I blew off the waiter and ran to him. He seemed pissed untill we got to my aprtment in the hotel. We hanged out with her for a few hours. She got drunk and locked herself in the room! We were talking about some stuff in general about cheating, relationships. I told him some personal stuff.We concluded that we have the same approach to the relationships. Then we started to make out. Since there was no place for him to sleep he had to leave at 5 am. And he had important meeting that day and interview for the job and classes. I asked him why did he come then? He said that its ok. He bought me some earings :eek::eek: I was like oh my god. He said that we will meet again soon and smiled. I told him ok. Eventhought I've thought that was not possible because I was leaving and I am from europe, he is here for a year or two and then he needs to go back to australia. I stayed for couple more days and postoponed my fliight because my best friend told me I should stay. He didn't know that. 3 days later I texted him that I stayed and that we could meet. He said that he was busy that day. I was going to some unplanned party and he was there unplanned too. We ignored each other in the group as always. While he was going home. I gave him some gift and I said goodbye. He told me that its not goodbye and that he thinks we will meet again someday. I asked him are you really sure!?!?! And kissed him on the cheek and left. The reason I was a bit bitchy to him and flirted with his friends when they flirted with me was because he hooked up with another chick 3 days after we met for the first time. But I've got over it eventually because I hooked up with some guy after I came to visit my friend abroad. I know this all sounds childish and confused. But my problem is that somehow I am going to visit him. I didn't plan that. The thing is that he found a job at the country and the city where my uncle lives! I didn't know that at all, neither did he. I told him that I hear he will be there when I will be there because I am visiting my family. All he said was that he will be there too and waiting for me. I am going there in 2 months. The problem is that this guy is so mysterious. He doesn't text much. He doesn't talk much about his personal things, he talks about general things. I don't force him anyway. I am not sure if he really is into me. He bought me earings, he did say couple of times that he thinks we will see each other someday again, I guess he was right. I am a woman and I texed him too much before. I couldnt help myself. At one point I've thought he thinks I am crazy and nuts. But he still did want to hangout with me aftewards and he does texts me or replies. I can't read him. I don't know how to behave. Should I just vanish for the next two months and see if he texts me or what? My best friend told me that he is weird and mysterious guy and that she doesn't knows him well. Everybody says that about him. Like he is really nice guy and sweet, sociable, but too mysterious at the same time. She thinks he likes me, because he would blow me off probably way before and that I should give him a brake for 2,3 weeks and text him eventually untill we meet again. She told me that I should also invite him to hang out there first and have fun since no one will know us. Just relax and flirt, hit on him, kiss him in public, be all over him and relax. And open myself to him. Then leave it all behind because he will probably go back to australia in 2,3 years because it doesnt make sense. I didn't plan to meet him again. It just happened and he is the one that mentioed that he will see me one day. What should I do? How should I aproach him when I meet him? How should I aproach him now? Why did he give me the earings!?!?! Why was he nice all of the sudden. And changed his mind and wants to see me again? Did he fall for me? Sorry for my long post! I am lost at the moments... its complicated and i didn't want to become so complicated. It was suposed to be a weekend thing. And now its becoming 5 months thing!!! With breakes.
pteromom Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 The problem is that this guy is so mysterious. Doesn't sound that mysterious to me. Sounds to me like he takes advantage of opportunities for sex when you are around, but he isn't that invested in you emotionally. Though I admit, I skimmed your post because it was so long. I wouldn't read too much into buying earrings. If he likes you, he will call you. He will respond to you. He will text you when he sees or hears things that remind him of you. He will be excited to see you. He will try to make plans with you. If he doesn't do any of that, then he isn't into you. Everybody says that about him. Like he is really nice guy and sweet, sociable, but too mysterious at the same time. Mysterious sounds sexy and intriguing. This guy doesn't sound mysterious. He just sounds uninterested. What should I do? How should I aproach him when I meet him? How should I aproach him now? Why did he give me the earings!?!?! Why was he nice all of the sudden. And changed his mind and wants to see me again? Did he fall for me? ? Only he knows what he is feeling. One thing is for sure... you sound way more into him than he is into you. Sorry for my long post! I am lost at the moments... its complicated and i didn't want to become so complicated. It was suposed to be a weekend thing. And now its becoming 5 months thing!!! With breakes. If you can't handle just hooking up with him when you run into each other, and that is all it is, then you need to back off. Unless he comes to you and wants to try to build a relationship, let it go.
Author Fornax Posted September 14, 2015 Author Posted September 14, 2015 Well, he does reply and text me about things that remind him of me. He told me that he will see me one day for two times in a row. When I've told him I was coming to his city and that he had a right predictions about seeing each other one day. He did seem really excited and happy about it. My problem is that so far I never gave him a chance to take the lead. I am stopping now and I will see what will he do about it. I seriously gave him too much attention and he is definatly sure I am into him. I think if he doesnt initiate anything in the next two or three weeks. That he is not into me as I've thought he was. So, I wont do anything either. I will text him then when I arrive, something casual and formal if he wants to hang out. Now its his turn to show some moves. We will see. But he is a bit mysterious and quite. Everybody of his friends tell that as a joke when they talk about him 'Oh, you know him. He just smiles and says one sentence.' And one of his friend told me like he is friendly, he does talk about general subjects, but he never talk about anything personal. He told me once some stuff, but he was too drunk' But people like him in general and have a good opinion about him.
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