Lucia16 Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 I met him like 2 weeks ago. In the second date I slept with him. I know it was too soon but I don't regret because I felt incredible good with him and is not like I was expecting a relationship. He is very sweet and he texted me the same night that we slept together. The he texted me a day after and he is very nice. He wants to see me again but he invited me to his apartment because he wants to cook for me. Of course he wants to have sex again because why I wouldn't do it again if I already did? I don't want to do it but I do like him. If I go to his apartment and don't have sex with him I would look like a tease or it would be stupid?
d0nnivain Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 If you don't want to have sex with him again so soon, have dinner in a public place. 3
pteromom Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Yes, if you are going to his apartment, there is an expectation of sex. If you want to meet at his place, you should tell him beforehand that you just want to get to know each other better, and aren't interested in having sex again on this date. 1
BlueBlood Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 And if he tosses a fit or whines, that gives you vital information into his core personality, so it's win win. A nice dinner date in public or all the info you need to not waste your precious time.
joseb Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Hi OP, just curious, You say the sex was really enjoyable. And you are not expecting a relationship. So why do you not want to have sex with him again?
Author Lucia16 Posted September 14, 2015 Author Posted September 14, 2015 Hi OP, just curious, You say the sex was really enjoyable. And you are not expecting a relationship. So why do you not want to have sex with him again? Because I did not expected that I will like him so much and I do not want him just for sex.
Jules Dash Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Because I did not expected that I will like him so much and I do not want him just for sex. Then try the dinner in the public place option mentioned above. Guys can be so transparent at times. A smarter plan would have been to throw you off the trail with the dinner in the public place option for the 3rd date in the first place.
oldshirt Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 I concur with the other posters. Meet in public for a more traditional get-to-know-ya date. If he balks and cancels or if he whines or protests and if he seems like he doesn't want to do that, then he is just in it for the poontang. If he seems cool with that, then maybe he is open for more than a booty call as well. Yes, of course he going to want to get it on again and you do need to allow a little leeway for some normal disappointment, but this is mostly going to be about what that little voice inside your head is telling you. Is it telling you that his disappointment is simply that it's not going to be some good and fun sex again for now? Or is it telling you that you basically took away all of his incentive to see you and that he has no other interest in you than what is in your pants. It all boils down to is he being a good sport about it or not.
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