adrian77 Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 2 friends of mine, both over weight (one 100 lbs over weight with bad teeth and thin hair, and the other 50 lbs overweight) get men that want to sleep with them left and right. The one who is 100 lbs overweight has been with 3 guy just in the last week. She met this hot young guy on a dating site and they hooked up twice. When I was single and 30 lbs over weight (I have good teeth, hair etc....) I never had guys interested in sleeping with me. I remember there was this guy I liked and he slept with her and this other girl that looked like a guy but wouldn't lay a hand on me. Granted I don't flirt much and and more shy (and don't drink much like they do) but I've had guys I met show no interest or make and excuse to leave yet my friends who aren't attracted have hot guys all over them the minute they meet them?
warshaw Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 If guys don't have any interest in you but they're all over your two fat friends and you've got a nice figure then it has to be your face, I can't come up with any other explanation. 1
Zippy2000 Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 If guys don't have any interest in you but they're all over your two fat friends and you've got a nice figure then it has to be your face, I can't come up with any other explanation. It must be! lol. However, maybe the men your friends are banging know its just a fling and nothing more. You have standards and your friends will be the ones who cry they cant keep a man when they want to get serious and have a relationship.
madjac74 Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Gosh I wouldnt want a friend like you. You basically brought out everything you think is negative about your "friends" to try to make yourself feel better. Maybe the guys can sense your bitterness 2
ExpatInItaly Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Maybe they exude more confidence, a more open vibe, happiness. It's hard to say without actually seeing how they interact with these guys. You yourself said you don't flirt much and are rather shy. That's probably the reason. 1
fitnessfan365 Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 First of all, you don't sound like a great friend. You're putting them both down saying they overweight and not attractive. If you're their friend, shouldn't you be supportive and happy for them? Secondly, attraction is subjective. You say that you're shy, don't flirt much, etc.. So maybe if you were more outgoing and let your feminine side come out more, you'd do better. Also, some women may be considered "overweight", but carry it in all the right places. For me personally, if a woman is too skinny where her ass/hips meet in a straight line, I don't find that attractive. So maybe the guys your friends are attracting prefer hourglass women.
Gaeta Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Not sure I follow you. You want men to sleep with? Those are available 1 cent a dozen. Those men that sleep with your friends do they stick around after? I didn't think so. If you want these types of men after you just put up pictures with cleavage and you'll have more offers than you can handle.
Toodaloo Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Gosh I wouldnt want a friend like you. You basically brought out everything you think is negative about your "friends" to try to make yourself feel better. Maybe the guys can sense your bitterness Adrian I have to say based on your posting style - If I were a man I wouldn't touch you with a barge pole either. Many of your posts are demeaning towards others, derogatory, and to be blunt not at all pleasant to read. Its like listening to a cackle of witches all slagging people off. It gets dull very quickly. Its not attractive at all. To be brutal I really do think you need a hobby or something. Seriously, go and learn something or make something of your life rather than getting jealous of others. You will find you have more to talk about and you will be happier in the long run. At least then you will be doing more with your spare time than judging others.
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