hasekninh Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 I went out on a date w this girl few time, everything went well. During one date, I asked her if she seeing anyone or date or has a bf, she replied no. So we continue dating and suddenly I found out the true. She did in fact has a bf while we dating. Am upset and confronted her. But she denied it. During our argument she said to me. " you can't accept am w him" I replied to her, he can have you, am done w you. Our mutual friend confirmed that she has a bf. So I ended everything with her. After 3 year of NC, this week she suddently text me and said she want to talk. Her msg: Hey, how are you doing? I know you don't want to see me or talk to me, i were wondering if your free we can meet up and have a chat. So should I meet up w her or just ignore her?
jam.over.jelly Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 This is a no brainer!!! Why would you want to meet up with her? She obviously is a liar! And a cheater!
Zagan Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 No don't meet her, she sounds like a pest. Find someone who doesn't lie to you, that would be a more positive start to a relationship.
clam Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Don't do it. She probably has another boyfriend she won't tell you about (again).
Ami1uwant Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Separating fir a moment her contacting you recently..... With younger women it's quite common women will have a current bf but won't break up with him until something better comes along. They don't break up with the old bf till new bf is there. I think she was looking for a new bf and you called her out on it. I think her contacting you could be legit interest in you who regretted not staying with you.
Author hasekninh Posted September 14, 2015 Author Posted September 14, 2015 Separating fir a moment her contacting you recently..... With younger women it's quite common women will have a current bf but won't break up with him until something better comes along. They don't break up with the old bf till new bf is there. I think she was looking for a new bf and you called her out on it. I think her contacting you could be legit interest in you who regretted not staying with you. Thank you for all the reply. I just wonder what she has to say to me. But am not interested in her at all. Even if I were to see her, I got nothing to say but just maybe listen. So far I just ignore her.
seeingthisguy Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 3 years is a long time of NC! I'd let it go - you're not missing anything based on how the potential relationship started.
740Park Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Her msg: Hey, how are you doing? I know you don't want to see me or talk to me, i were wondering if your free we can meet up and have a chat. So should I meet up w her or just ignore her? I'd say ignore... Just something about her message sounds drama-inducing... I just think she answered her own question in the text anyhow with: "I know you don't want to see me or talk to me"...
madjac74 Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 If you are considering this after 3 years....it means your options are non existent. If I went no contact with someone for 3 years, I would have to have them remind me who they were. You went on a few dates with her but still remember her. Yes you might as well meet her
fitnessfan365 Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 A leopard can't change its spots. Since you already know what type of person she is - a liar and a cheater, why would you care about anything she has to say after three years? I mean don't you have any other women in your orbit?
d0nnivain Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 How old are you guys? If you were young teens back then and You want to see her, she may have grown up in 3 years. But you will have to be cautious because she is not the most credible person out there.
Toodaloo Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 I just wonder what she has to say to me. According to Schroedinger - Curiosity really did kill the cat. Just ignore her.
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