orioles1744 Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 So I recently asked what my next step would be while talking to this girl. We went to dinner I asked her to go to the fair with me and we also went to a concert with me last night we had a great time. Everytime we leave she gives me a kiss. I text her last night and told her I was glad we were getting to know each other and I really liked her she said she really liked me too and said she likes that everything feels natural and nothing feels rushed and she likes the way things are going what is my next step after dates? How slow should I take things? Any advice will help
highseas Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 Tell her that you want her to come over to your place for some hot tea and you will talk about the next steps together.
Jj66 Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 Step it up. Take it as far as she is willing.
d0nnivain Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Go at a pace that makes you happy. If you press for something & she says no, respect that & back down a bit. Then slowly ramp it up. I think at this point you can at least try for a kiss hello instead of just at the end of the date. A hot & heavy make out session could be fun too.
Author orioles1744 Posted September 14, 2015 Author Posted September 14, 2015 We have kissed a few times now and we both live at home sucks I know. I don't want to be to pushy when we go out I won't hold her hand I don't know what her reaction will be I use to be very shy but it is getting a lot better. She asked me to go somewhere with her and she never says no to hanging out.
jam.over.jelly Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 how many times have you guys hung out?
Redhead14 Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 So I recently asked what my next step would be while talking to this girl. We went to dinner I asked her to go to the fair with me and we also went to a concert with me last night we had a great time. Everytime we leave she gives me a kiss. I text her last night and told her I was glad we were getting to know each other and I really liked her she said she really liked me too and said she likes that everything feels natural and nothing feels rushed and she likes the way things are going what is my next step after dates? How slow should I take things? Any advice will help she likes the way things are going Don't change anything you've been doing. It's working apparently. If it ain't broke don't fix it. Escalate it gradually. You kiss each other each time, so now add a little hand-holding.
Author orioles1744 Posted September 14, 2015 Author Posted September 14, 2015 We have hung out 5-7 times.
Redhead14 Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 We have hung out 5-7 times. Great, escalate a little next time. Hold hands, gauge her response. Take it one date/day at a time 1
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