fifipheebs Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 We're both in university/college. We hung out a few times before the date but that was with friends. She was even cool with me going over to her place, never happened though. The reason it took so long for us to actually go out was because we had a week long recess and she went home. I'm just not used to a girl who doesn't really initiate small talk. I know people say its mostly pointless and you have to stay off the phone etc. But all the girls who've shown a lot of interest in me have always initiated a lot of contact. I guess I'm just wondering whether a girl can really be interested but not initiate that much. I think she may be seeing how interested you are in her. Do guys really sit back and want the girl to take the helms sometimes? I had a guy who initiated a lot and i never did. Don't get me wrong, i loved it because it showed me he was interested. However, he's since stopped and it's come to an almost grinding halt with contact, if i'm lucky once a month.
abby2 Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 I think girls usually expect the guy to initiate in the beginning stage, she might want you to chase her.
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