Yummm Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 Some advice needed people! So I went on a second date with a girl that I was interested in today. On the first date we went for drinks, got along well, she was very hard to read and hasn't been in a relationship before but I enjoyed her company and ended up getting a kiss at the end of the date. Today we went ice skating followed by a nice pedal boat on a river, it was really sweet. We got on, although her personality seems quite 'robotic' our conversation flowed and she was attractive. As I said she was really hard to read and our vibe was really friendly, but she did openly admit to having very little dating experience so I guess her flirting isn't great... so I decoded to make a move and got another kiss. We were both hungover and not on top form so we didn't have big expectations and it was pretty relaxed and chilled. When I told her i'd like to see her again, her response was 'yeah, we'll talk'. To me that sounds like a rejection, but she then texted me saying how she had a lovely afternoon and continued to make conversation. Does this sound like a rejection to you guys? I have no emotional ties with her so if I weren't to hear from her again it wouldn't really bother me, but I did like her and would like to know if it's worth investing into another date if the signs aren't really there.
preraph Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 It doesn't have to mean rejection. She may just not be the best communicator. She contacted you saying she had a nice time, so there's no reason not to ask her out again. Since she was vague, you be very specific: Hey, you want to go see "movie name" the 7 o'clock showing Tuesday at the Movieplex? If she is vague again, maybe she's not that interested. If she puts you off, don't wait to ask again. Immediately say "What night would be good for you?" If she can't come up with a night (even if it's "next week"), then yes, she's probably lost interest. 1
Author Yummm Posted September 13, 2015 Author Posted September 13, 2015 It doesn't have to mean rejection. She may just not be the best communicator. She contacted you saying she had a nice time, so there's no reason not to ask her out again. Since she was vague, you be very specific: Hey, you want to go see "movie name" the 7 o'clock showing Tuesday at the Movieplex? If she is vague again, maybe she's not that interested. If she puts you off, don't wait to ask again. Immediately say "What night would be good for you?" If she can't come up with a night (even if it's "next week"), then yes, she's probably lost interest. Thanks mate! So I took your advice and asked her for another date straight away, she said 'Okay sounds fun! ' even though that doesn't sound too enthusiastic it's a yes nonetheless so thank you for the advice!
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