Hopeful30 Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 Here I am complaining about being single for over a year, yet when an opportunity to get intimate with a man that I'm really into comes up, I freak out! We've been hanging out for a while, and I know things will get sexual very soon (I'm extremely attracted to this guy too). I guess I'm just afraid that he will judge me, or things might not go as smoothly as we both hope they will. Or even that something might go wrong and he will talk about it to his friends (to my embarrassment). Any advice on how to calm my mind? Thanks guys 1
Popsicle Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 Here I am complaining about being single for over a year, yet when an opportunity to get intimate with a man that I'm really into comes up, I freak out! We've been hanging out for a while, and I know things will get sexual very soon (I'm extremely attracted to this guy too). I guess I'm just afraid that he will judge me, or things might not go as smoothly as we both hope they will. Or even that something might go wrong and he will talk about it to his friends (to my embarrassment). Any advice on how to calm my mind? Thanks guys I know this is very nerve wrecking for you, but just go with it. Calm your mind by realizing that he's probably thinking the same way about you, and this will pass once you get used to each other. 1
regine_phalange Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 He may have a similar fear... Or if you do end up being intimate you may be the one to judge after all. You never know! 1
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