soulforge Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 Can they ever workout? Whats your experience of cyclic relationships, and what was the outcome? How many break ups, till you completely gave up and walked away forever..
casey.lives Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 the only thing that ever helped me walk away was finding out the guy was a total loser and when he had cut me off completely, where i couldn't be confused anymore. The latter is a true act of kindness. When you grow up, you understand.
drseuss Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 My ex has been on and off with someone for 12 years , i don't know the details of how on and off it was but she left me bacuse she wasn't over him but I don't think she feels the same about him anymore ,i know holds a lot of centimental attachment and feels like she loves him , obviously ,because of time spent together and they will have been through a hell of alot together , i sometime wonder if they are just stuck to spend the rest of their lives doing what they are doing, she said she just wanted to be single and sort her self out which was by far the most sensible thing for her because of where she was at in her life We have been broken up 7 weeks and I have no idea if she back with him or not but she spoke to him throughout our 10 month rs and even met him a few times which is what messed her uo , she was so sure she didn't want him for the first 4 months but he wanted to see her and she felt guilty and met him , shortly before she told me not to worry and she was only going to see him quickly to bury the hatchet ....but it messed everything up , we broke up and she was back with me a week later but the damage was done , she isn't strong enough to go nc with him so I guess she won't ever move on until she does
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