Bmb2441 Posted September 12, 2015 Posted September 12, 2015 So me and my ex had dated about two years and she broke it off in late July because we started to argue way too much anyways we still talked from time to time and argued still but the last few weeks we were talking everynight on the phone and weren't arguing at all everything was more civil and calm between she even made some references to our relationship but I didn't wanna dive into that topic really but then just a few nights ago we were having a decent conversation and she asked if I was talking to anyone and I said no then she looked on my Facebook and saw a girl who lives in my town had liked a few of my photo's and she flipped out on me,swearing, calling me names, saying I was playing mind games and that I was manipulative and she was and she kept hanging up. Then the next day I tried seeing why she got so pissed and she was still extremely hostile and even said she hated me and said she found the truth out about me when she looked on my Facebook and told me to go get with that girl who liked my photo. Why would an ex gf make a big deal out of something that small? Insecurity purposes?
TaraMaiden2 Posted September 12, 2015 Posted September 12, 2015 Who cares? Block, deny, delete, go total NC. She's your ex-, she has no right to you, or any call to be jealous, possessive or annoyed. Give her the heave-ho, ignore her and implement NC the way it should be. if you stay in touch with her, expect more of the same manipulative behaviour. You're. Broken. Up. It's over, there is no relationship. Quit staying in contact, and leave this behind, walk away, move on. 1
Author Bmb2441 Posted September 12, 2015 Author Posted September 12, 2015 Yeah that's pretty much my only option at this point
Author Bmb2441 Posted September 12, 2015 Author Posted September 12, 2015 I went no contact back then she had me blocked on everything was about five days in and she randomly texted me late at night saying I was unblocked from everything and she looked on my Facebook back then and saw I added a few girls and kept saying I'll leave you alone I don't want you're new gf to get mad and I just ignored her and then she was bitching at me the very next morning about moving on so quickly when I didn't even harbor the thought of moving on..I duno if she was just trying to get under my skin or if she was actually being serious. She did the same thing towards the end of the relationship threatened to dump me because a girl liked a good majority of my photo's,Must be just extremely insecure.
TaraMaiden2 Posted September 12, 2015 Posted September 12, 2015 You broke NC by responding. If you had refused to respond and had just left her hanging, all this drama would have gone away. She sounds unhinged... "I don't want you, but how dare anyone else want you. And how dare you even think of dating anyone else!" She not only sounds insecure, she sounds very immature, too. Just determine from now on, to respond, react or reply to NOTHING at all!
dumbass2 Posted September 12, 2015 Posted September 12, 2015 She broke up with you and she gets upset because some other girl liked you on facebook? Guess what? She no longer has a say in your life. I know you still like her and care about her, but the way she is acting should tell you something. She is the one trying to be manipulative and going poor her and shame on you. Again, she broke up with you. She decided that, not you and now she doesn't want you, but she sure as hell doesn't want to see you with someone else before she does. It's just the way it works sometimes. Do not speak to her again and go silent on her. She has brought this on, from what you have told us.
Author Bmb2441 Posted September 13, 2015 Author Posted September 13, 2015 She blocked my number and Facebook on Friday then yesterday I add a new photo and used it as my default and a few females liked it,Anyway around midnight she calls private but I didn't answer and then shortly after I noticed she unblocked my Facebook account and then calls again close to one am and I pick up and said hello multiple times and she stayed silent so I just hung up,Then calls private again about fifteen minutes later but I didn't pick up.She told me to leave her alone why should she care what I'm doing?
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