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This girl is from a different part of my state and she came here for college. And she always told me she wanted to be shown around town. (It was a while ago when she told me but i never go a chance too..)

 

But i was thinking about taking her to eat (Not sure what restaurant though..) then show her where i grew up and stuff and share a lot of funny stories and stuff. After that i was thinking about going to watch the sunset.

 

Would doing this seem like i'm taking things too fast? Or what else should i do?

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If you know a cool environment for the sunset then that could go ok. Secure the dinner first. Where you grew up could be hit or miss, if she doesn't have much feelings for you yet then it may not be as interesting to her. That's good to do after you establish the relationship.

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If you know a cool environment for the sunset then that could go ok. Secure the dinner first. Where you grew up could be hit or miss, if she doesn't have much feelings for you yet then it may not be as interesting to her. That's good to do after you establish the relationship.

Yeah we both went to a concert together a couple of weeks ago and she would lay in my lap and just really flirted with me. We talked on the phone for like 3 hours last Saturday, and i asked her to hang out this Saturday. Just still not for sure what to do...

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She already told you what kind of date she wanted. Show her around town. Take her to all the popular sites and show her a good time. I she asks about where you grew up or something else personal like that, then you show her those things.

 

Well it was a while ago and by a while ago i mean like maybe a year or so...

 

It's a really long story, the best way to explain is she had a BF for a while.

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You blew the perfect 1st date. It's been a year. She knows her way around. You showing her around would be an insult to her intelligence.

 

 

I don't remember a boy ever asking me out to dinner in college & I'm not sure I would have liked such a date early on. Do almost anything else.

 

 

Is there a cool touristy thing in the area that only the locals know about? Take her there. Otherwise, ask her to a game on campus or to a movie.

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You blew the perfect 1st date. It's been a year. She knows her way around. You showing her around would be an insult to her intelligence.

 

 

I don't remember a boy ever asking me out to dinner in college & I'm not sure I would have liked such a date early on. Do almost anything else.

 

 

Is there a cool touristy thing in the area that only the locals know about? Take her there. Otherwise, ask her to a game on campus or to a movie.

 

Well my town is connected to another town and the other town is where i grew up... And when i talked to her saturday, i told her all about that stuff and she seemed pretty interested. I'm just not 100 on what else i should do. I just want her to have a good time.

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Do something you find fun. If she doesn't like it, you're probably better off without her anyway.

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