QueenDeath Posted September 11, 2015 Posted September 11, 2015 (edited) So I've been on OkCupid for a while and I met this guy that lives in the city...40 minutes or so. We originally planned to hangout during the night tonight which I'm fine with. He text me earlier saying how he cancelled work or whatever *don't know if he's being truthful or not* and asked if we can hangout earlier since I wouldn't be able to spend a lot of time with him tonight and I told him that I can't and I really don't want to but then he asked again. He also said how he's having a bad day and he was hoping to spend time with me and have more time to hangout and omg! I really don't know what to do with this guy, I feel so bad!! omg!! I even changed the date to the 26th cause I'm going to be in the city for pretty much the whole day, I'm now feeling guilty and omg! Like...omg. I feel so bad now. :c I even rescheduled with him so it should show I'm interested in hanging out with him. omg And now he's telling me that I'm not reliable, he wants to spend the whole day with me but I am not really in the mood as of now to say I wanna get up and get ready, however, I am down for hanging out with him tonight and again...I even wanted to rescheduled even though it was too far in advanced according to him. Now I feel bad for rescheduling the date, is it bad to do that? Edited September 11, 2015 by QueenDeath
fitnessfan365 Posted September 11, 2015 Posted September 11, 2015 Is tonight supposed to be the first time you meet in person? If so, I'd be a little bit concerned. I mean here is a guy you haven't even had one date with yet, already re-arranging his schedule begging to spend even more time with you. Sounds a bit desperate to me.
Author QueenDeath Posted September 11, 2015 Author Posted September 11, 2015 Is tonight supposed to be the first time you meet in person? If so, I'd be a little bit concerned. I mean here is a guy you haven't even had one date with yet, already re-arranging his schedule begging to spend even more time with you. Sounds a bit desperate to me. The date is supposed to be the first time we meet in person, I hate it when people beg. x.x even when I decide to re-arrange it even though it's two weeks in advanced...me re-arranging shows that I'm still interested. I don't want to cancel it, however, he wants to spend more time with me and same goes for me and I re-arranged it to two weeks from now.
Ruby Slippers Posted September 11, 2015 Posted September 11, 2015 This guy sounds incompetent and weird. If a man doesn't make it EASY and FUN to date him, don't bother. If it were me, I'd move on from this one. 2
fitnessfan365 Posted September 11, 2015 Posted September 11, 2015 The date is supposed to be the first time we meet in person, I hate it when people beg.. That's my point though. This is a guy you haven't even met. But he's already begging to spend more time with you. This makes it sound like he's really desperate. So it's always a good idea to pay attention to red flags like this before hand.
smackie9 Posted September 11, 2015 Posted September 11, 2015 Follow your gut instinct......if it doesn't feel right then it's not.
kendahke Posted September 11, 2015 Posted September 11, 2015 I guess I'm not following what you're asking. He's changing the date and time when you two meet for the first time and you don't feel like changing your schedule to accommodate this?
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