katiegrl Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 ZA. I can tell you now that women are sometimes stupid. Like every one on here he has been trying to date and had a rough time of it. His confidence is in the floor and he is hurting BUT what makes him different is that he is not desperate. Under all that he knows he is a good catch. So what have these women been turning down? I will start with the things that you notice first/ from profile then go on with the things that you learn later as you get to know him... 1. The guy is tall, handsome, built like a brick s*** house. 2. Own business 3. Hair and teeth, manners - all good Then you start to get to know him... 4. For all that strength and power - He is an absolute softie, loves animals, very gentle 5. He loves to dance and wants to learn more 6. He is not afraid to admit that he loves Dolly Parton 7. He loves food and is a piggy and will only share with the love of his life aka his dog! 8. He can stand in silence and not be worried about it, he can stand and be chatty and social with others, even if he has only just met them 9. He loves space and being outside - except when its raining! 10. He is an ex Olympian - yes thats right he went and competed for our conntry 11. He is very strong - more so than he looks but he doesn't use it against anyone unless absolutely forced to 12. He loves old movies including ones like Affair to remember etc 13. His children mean the world to him and he will drop anything and every thing to make sure they know he loves them and he misses them when they are not around 14. He has come back and made something of himself after going through some really tough times 15. He is ex military and tries to help others who are coming out who have issues such as PTSD and/ or lack of training on coping with civilian life 16. He is non judgemental and treats others with dignity and respect regardless of gender, age, disability or past Oh and he has an arse to die for - I just want to bite it!!! Women have been turning this guy down??? They have been rude and nasty towards him in doing so??? Damn they are just fools... personally I can't wait to jump on the poor man and rip his clothing off! So ZA, this guy has "got it all" and he has also "had it all" when it comes to dating and women too. Goes to show that sometimes you can literally be the greatest guy in the world but until someone just as special recognises that... sadly we all have to meet dross. So remember, never sell yourself short. I aimed for better and for higher and I am hoping that I have finally found it. So far this one is certainly very special and rather extraordinary. Toodles, wow hun I love this!!! :bunny::bunny: You are BOTH blessed for having found each other!!! All it takes is one person, and your whole world changes! I am very happy for you.....
Author Toodaloo Posted September 16, 2015 Author Posted September 16, 2015 Toodles, wow hun I love this!!! :bunny::bunny: You are BOTH blessed for having found each other!!! All it takes is one person, and your whole world changes! I am very happy for you..... I love it too! We were at a show on Saturday and there was a lady there who had come to watch her son. He didn't know her and it was obvious she was feeling awkward, he just started chatting to her and made her feel so much more at home and comfortable. When I went off to get ice creams he didn't panic or have a go at me, just grinned when he saw me come back with them. If he thinks I have done something wrong he pulls me up on it. He is just natural with everyone of all ages etc. He makes people feel good and special. I love standing back and watching him. He also got chatted up by another man who wouldn't take no for an answer and couldn't stop trying to stare into his eyes! i was fine with that gave me an excuse to lay my claim by putting my hand on his backside!!! I really don't understand why women were so vile to him. He is good looking in a rugged manly way that is very attractive. For all he is very muscular its not too much and just suits him. He has the prettiest eyes, bright blue and they sparkle when he smiles. Waaaay better than all the weirdos I have met! I hate to say it but he is also waaaay better than the mediocre nice guys too. He isn't nice - he is beyond that. He is awesome. 2
Yummm Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 This is such great news Thanks Toodles! You've put a smile on my face... for all these mediocre dates i've been on over the last few weeks this gives me hope to find that spark again eventually.. Goodluck to you girl! Take it easy 1
katiegrl Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 I love it too! We were at a show on Saturday and there was a lady there who had come to watch her son. He didn't know her and it was obvious she was feeling awkward, he just started chatting to her and made her feel so much more at home and comfortable. When I went off to get ice creams he didn't panic or have a go at me, just grinned when he saw me come back with them. If he thinks I have done something wrong he pulls me up on it. He is just natural with everyone of all ages etc. He makes people feel good and special. I love standing back and watching him. He also got chatted up by another man who wouldn't take no for an answer and couldn't stop trying to stare into his eyes! i was fine with that gave me an excuse to lay my claim by putting my hand on his backside!!! I really don't understand why women were so vile to him. He is good looking in a rugged manly way that is very attractive. For all he is very muscular its not too much and just suits him. He has the prettiest eyes, bright blue and they sparkle when he smiles. Waaaay better than all the weirdos I have met! I hate to say it but he is also waaaay better than the mediocre nice guys too. He isn't nice - he is beyond that. He is awesome. Girl, I do believe you are "falling" in love! I remember that feeling, it's soooooooo awesome! And it only gets better! Please keep posting...... we need some positivity on here for a change! 1
Gaeta Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 Please please please keep one toe on the ground ok :-) 1
Author Toodaloo Posted September 16, 2015 Author Posted September 16, 2015 This is such great news Thanks Toodles! You've put a smile on my face... for all these mediocre dates i've been on over the last few weeks this gives me hope to find that spark again eventually.. Goodluck to you girl! Take it easy I had logged onto my dating profile to get rid of it for a bit and take a break. I am going through some tough times at the moment with other things and figured I would try again once I have all that sorted... Saw his profile there and figured one more "hello" couldn't hurt, so I did... Really helped that he had a reasonable profile and I could find things to start a conversation with. Yummm I have had it ALL! I have been stood up, insulted, threatened, squawked at, embarrassed as well as having some nice dates and a couple of great dates too... Just keep going. Both on line and in real life. Even if this one doesn't work out I will keep going and keep trying. 1
Author Toodaloo Posted September 16, 2015 Author Posted September 16, 2015 Please please please keep one toe on the ground ok :-) I will try... but if he lifts me up on the counter... a. I am not going to stop him and b. I am not going to tell you about it!
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