Author Toodaloo Posted September 14, 2015 Author Posted September 14, 2015 Now that we're into confidence. I met someone, he's smitten like a sick puppy and I decided to ride with it, I'm hopping I will get the smitten sickness as well. :-) Erm Gaeta you know you have to spill the beans now right?!!!
Gaeta Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Erm Gaeta you know you have to spill the beans now right?!!! It's one of those stories when the guy is totally smitten with you after meeting once. He says he can't sleep - can't eat since he met me lol. During our coffee he forgot to breath in a couple of times. That has always got me run in the other direction but I like this one so I'm sticking around for a while :-)
Author Toodaloo Posted September 14, 2015 Author Posted September 14, 2015 Oh my guy eats still... he eats like a Norse God...
Clarence_Boddicker Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 If his van is Diesel, all is good. If it's petrol, be leery. In the part of Cali I lived at, most farriers seem to drive trucks with trailers. The trailers were setup as the workshop.
Author Toodaloo Posted September 14, 2015 Author Posted September 14, 2015 If his van is Diesel, all is good. If it's petrol, be leery. In the part of Cali I lived at, most farriers seem to drive trucks with trailers. The trailers were setup as the workshop. Nah over here they set up in the back of their vans... Pretty impressive what they come up with sometimes. He is just as he is and that is what I like best.
jen1447 Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 If it works out and you find yourself on hiatus from the site for a while, please let us know about your happy ending It'd be nice to hear it The happy ending specifically. All the sticky details. Good stuff Toodles. 1
Diezel Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 If his van is Diesel, all is good. You're welcome. 2
Leigh 87 Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 Now that we're into confidence. I met someone, he's smitten like a sick puppy and I decided to ride with it, I'm hopping I will get the smitten sickness as well. :-) Like redhead said, I am managing my emotions and expectations. The truth is, you mine and Toodles men have a high chance of disappearing, ghosting, doing the flow fade or just plain loosing interest after a month or after two months It's never wise to get too smitten. I acknowledge my latest guy is someone I felt the instant magic with and that I am falling for rather fast in terms of my feelings being strong in a short time span...... But yeah. I don't expect to be with him in two weeks or a month..much less long term. Yay for us, we have a fun week or two ahead of us with these men. But who knows.
Gaeta Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 Yay for us, we have a fun week or two ahead of us with these men. But who knows. haha! I like it Leigh.
PrettyEmily77 Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 He is just as he is and that is what I like best. That little sentence right here says it all... . Enjoy 1
Leigh 87 Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 Is he similar to you, Toodaloo? What's he like?
fitnessfan365 Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 But yeah. I don't expect to be with him in two weeks or a month..much less long term. It's funny because you referred to this guy as your soulmate in the thread you started. You even exchanged "I love you's". But you don't expect to be with him long term? 2
katiegrl Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 (edited) It's funny because you referred to this guy as your soulmate in the thread you started. You even exchanged "I love you's". But you don't expect to be with him long term? What's that saying "hope for the best, but expect the worst"? Not a bad idea to lower expectations and then get surprised when things actually work out long term..... As we all know, often times love is not enough to carry us all the way down the garden path to true exaltation. Good luck Toodles...and Leigh...and Gaeta!!! :) Fingers crossed (my new favorite LS expression....hehe) Edited September 16, 2015 by katiegrl 1
Leigh 87 Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 It's funny because you referred to this guy as your soulmate in the thread you started. You even exchanged "I love you's". But you don't expect to be with him long term? I have a very good feeling about him. But I am realistic and know there are true scum bags and con artists out there. 3
menyou Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 Like redhead said, I am managing my emotions and expectations. The truth is, you mine and Toodles men have a high chance of disappearing, ghosting, doing the flow fade or just plain loosing interest after a month or after two months It's never wise to get too smitten. I acknowledge my latest guy is someone I felt the instant magic with and that I am falling for rather fast in terms of my feelings being strong in a short time span...... But yeah. I don't expect to be with him in two weeks or a month..much less long term. Yay for us, we have a fun week or two ahead of us with these men. But who knows. This makes me sad. Live in the present. Zero expectations for tomorrow. Be happy for yourself today and if your partner is gone tomorrow, it really is their loss. 1
kilgore Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 This makes me sad. Live in the present. Zero expectations for tomorrow. Be happy for yourself today and if your partner is gone tomorrow, it really is their loss. That is a better approach that assuming the worst
Leigh 87 Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 I think we are all treasuring the moment. I don't have doubts when with my boyfriend and I am sure Todaloo doesn't either - it is when we are apart I am not exactly assuming we will get married or that it'll last. You're right, I am focusing on the present with zero expectations.
guest569 Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 I'm smitten too and I hate it. I hate early days and the unknown. I'm going to get hurt. How can one be less smitten? And not multi dating!! 1
Author Toodaloo Posted September 16, 2015 Author Posted September 16, 2015 It's funny because you referred to this guy as your soulmate in the thread you started. You even exchanged "I love you's". But you don't expect to be with him long term? Good point... I am glad you brought that up! I don't think I am in love with this guy yet. Thats got to grow and come later. Perhaps it will, perhaps it won't. But for now I am enjoying getting to know him better. I enjoy his company, I enjoy the flutters etc. I am seeing him again tonight, I am looking forward to it. As for soul mate. I personally don't believe in all that crap. However with this guy... he is great. I was chatting to him and teasing him last night and he was straight back at me with that one! Who knows? Lets find out! Its not even been a week yet and already on date 4! Still no sex... which I am partly grateful for as I can just get to know him, but partly its driving me wild because he is just so so so utterly gorgeous. I want to rip his clothes off and send him home with a bemused look on his face! Calm down Smiley! Your not automatically going to get hurt. Remember paint your toes, go out with friends etc. Do lots of things on your own with out him then if he does buggar off your life is still a good one anyway and it will be more his loss than yours! 2
Author Toodaloo Posted September 16, 2015 Author Posted September 16, 2015 What's that saying "hope for the best, but prepare for the worst"? Corrected it for you. 1
Author Toodaloo Posted September 16, 2015 Author Posted September 16, 2015 I cant message you anymore toodles You can now 1
ZA Dater Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 Glad you have found your "wow". There are very few things nicer than being "wowed". As for smitten, lovely descriptive word 1
Author Toodaloo Posted September 16, 2015 Author Posted September 16, 2015 Glad you have found your "wow". There are very few things nicer than being "wowed". As for smitten, lovely descriptive word ZA. I can tell you now that women are sometimes stupid. Like every one on here he has been trying to date and had a rough time of it. His confidence is in the floor and he is hurting BUT what makes him different is that he is not desperate. Under all that he knows he is a good catch. So what have these women been turning down? I will start with the things that you notice first/ from profile then go on with the things that you learn later as you get to know him... 1. The guy is tall, handsome, built like a brick s*** house. 2. Own business 3. Hair and teeth, manners - all good Then you start to get to know him... 4. For all that strength and power - He is an absolute softie, loves animals, very gentle 5. He loves to dance and wants to learn more 6. He is not afraid to admit that he loves Dolly Parton 7. He loves food and is a piggy and will only share with the love of his life aka his dog! 8. He can stand in silence and not be worried about it, he can stand and be chatty and social with others, even if he has only just met them 9. He loves space and being outside - except when its raining! 10. He is an ex Olympian - yes thats right he went and competed for our conntry 11. He is very strong - more so than he looks but he doesn't use it against anyone unless absolutely forced to 12. He loves old movies including ones like Affair to remember etc 13. His children mean the world to him and he will drop anything and every thing to make sure they know he loves them and he misses them when they are not around 14. He has come back and made something of himself after going through some really tough times 15. He is ex military and tries to help others who are coming out who have issues such as PTSD and/ or lack of training on coping with civilian life 16. He is non judgemental and treats others with dignity and respect regardless of gender, age, disability or past Oh and he has an arse to die for - I just want to bite it!!! Women have been turning this guy down??? They have been rude and nasty towards him in doing so??? Damn they are just fools... personally I can't wait to jump on the poor man and rip his clothing off! So ZA, this guy has "got it all" and he has also "had it all" when it comes to dating and women too. Goes to show that sometimes you can literally be the greatest guy in the world but until someone just as special recognises that... sadly we all have to meet dross. So remember, never sell yourself short. I aimed for better and for higher and I am hoping that I have finally found it. So far this one is certainly very special and rather extraordinary.
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