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Will a side chick find a way to sabotage your girl relationship if you break it off?

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pjm123 Established Member

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Will she try to tell main girl and have her not want you anymore?

d0nnivain Established Member

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I think it doesn't matter how your "main girl" finds out about your "side chick". Both will leave you when they learn how disrespectfully you refer to women as "girls" and "chicks". Moreover, at least one, if not both, will dump you solely because you cheated on her.

 

Consider fidelity or having a open relationship but being dishonest is always a problem.

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PureAppleJuice Established Member

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I think you deserve to lose your 'main girl' if you have a 'side chick'.

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Jj66 Established Member

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The answer to your question is a qualified maybe. Or if she doesn't she may send you angry texts and emails and you could get found out from those. This is something you'll just have to accept as a consequence of your lying and deception.

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mrldii Established Member

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Perhaps I'm just not understanding the question...if you have "a main girl" and "a side chick", what's the problem?

 

Unless, of course, the "main girl" actually believes she's the "only girl".

 

Why would "a main girl" who knows she's [simply] "a main girl" have a problem hearing from "a side chick"? Hell, they might even become besties, beings as they've got so much in common, already. :)

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Redhead14 Established Member

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Will she try to tell main girl and have her not want you anymore?

 

My friend, it is certainly a possibility. You will have scorned two women in that case. Be afraid, be very afraid.

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Ummm. Well, that all depends on a lot of factors. Not much information in the post. And nothing here is known about the "side chick's" demeanor. Maybe one thing - if she's career focused and level-headed she will look at what she has to lose and things will end in a more quiet fashion. However, if she is more a drama-oriented person and figures she doesn't have much to lose then yes, yes quite possibly a terrible scenario. And you should definitely report back to this thread for that update...

Maggie4 Established Member

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So you're trying to break it off with the "side chick"? I have heard of men who were afraid to break off an affair because the mistress threatened to tell the wife. The guy is afraid to lose his family, children, etc. and he doesn't want to hurt his wife. But how can he silence the mistress? He cannot. There is nothing he can do, except tell his wife the truth himself.

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Will she try to tell main girl and have her not want you anymore?

 

Yep, if she's pushed to that point by your treachery.

 

If you've been lying and obfuscating, you can expect something to land hard on your head.

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Diezel Established Member

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One can only hope so.

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autumnnight Established Member

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I think you deserve to lose your 'main girl' if you have a 'side chick'.

 

This. You become a lying cheater, you pretty much deserve it if she does.

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BlueBlood Established Member

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Side meets Main? You meet pain.

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