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Hi I have just now gotten back into dating. I met someone who was really fun. I have not dated for 10 years! since marriage and divorce so texting is was newer then.

 

 

We were just casual dating not boyfriend/girlfriend but I am pretty feisty and do not put up with much and speak my mind. Well I sure did to him over some certain points and it was not NICE, quite nasty.

 

 

He said okay blocking you now. Well I followed up with a text 2 days later and he wrote back within an hour and another follow up Night. I wrote again the next day but crickets.

 

 

I would have thought he would have blocked me. Does this show any interest? I am okay. I have a couple other prospects, but I know them better and it does not seem as fun.

 

 

Would you as a guy follow up a text of someone who you had no interest whom you also said you were blocking 2 nights before?

 

 

I believe I am going to just take a month and half off dating and focus on my workout intensely. Thank you if you have some thoughts. My other interests will be around so I have time to focus on other things and maybe catch drinks with them.

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I read your other thread. The guy sounded like a raging lunatic. Steer clear of this one, seriously he sounds like a psycho, no matter how much "fun" you had.

 

I like your plan to focus on your workouts for awhile :)

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Hi Clam thanks for responding. :) My question is why say you are blocking someone and then don't. Then respond to text 2 days later and then ignore.

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Well I started texting a guy I dated for 2 years awhile ago, a surgeon, who has quite a few personal demons...I do not know maybe the old will feel new. He is showing a lot of interest and regrets from the past.

 

 

I have a hard time multi dating, my focus has to be centered. I was not sure if the OTHER guys replying was interest but not quite forgiving the verbal chewing or if it is just games.....thanks!

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Sounds like you are both very strong willed?

 

With this kind of combination there will be fireworks, both good and bad, and certainly it will never be boring! lol

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Sounds like you are both very strong willed?

 

With this kind of combination there will be fireworks, both good and bad, and certainly it will never be boring! lol

 

Ha ha! Yes mysticmind it sure does. It was good and has been very bad! I really went for the chopstick...it was not good.

In your opinion do you think him not blocking and then responding is a good sign? I am not going to send anything more, I am just curious. I am sure he is still pissed. He is blatantly ignoring me now. Ha! :)

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Ha ha! Yes mysticmind it sure does. It was good and has been very bad! I really went for the chopstick...it was not good.

In your opinion do you think him not blocking and then responding is a good sign? I am not going to send anything more, I am just curious. I am sure he is still pissed. He is blatantly ignoring me now. Ha! :)

 

Tough question,, but i think in the end the answer is that you are both experienced enough in life to realize it would never work.

 

But sometimes impossible things can be very attractive - human nature is a bitch sometimes! lol

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Tough question,, but i think in the end the answer is that you are both experienced enough in life to realize it would never work.

 

But sometimes impossible things can be very attractive - human nature is a bitch sometimes! lol

 

 

 

 

I just now noticed that he had texted me twice at 6 in the morning. It has been a busy morning. It was not a good morning text but more talking. It has been a rollercoaster for sure!

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I just now noticed that he had texted me twice at 6 in the morning. It has been a busy morning. It was not a good morning text but more talking. It has been a rollercoaster for sure!

 

 

like a moth to the flame :)

 

Not always a bad thing.... let me share with you this song to usher in your new adventure...

 

 

Song by Icehouse, Touch The Fire

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like a moth to the flame :)

 

Not always a bad thing.... let me share with you this song to usher in your new adventure...

 

 

Song by Icehouse, Touch The Fire

 

 

 

Yes and that song sex on fire! I accidently texted him a text meant for a gf to meet at club (not night club) for spirits, and we ended up texting we will be friends.

 

 

I believe maybe it was too much too fast and it burned out. I am not sure.

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But............but he and I are at it again. This is absolutely crazy.

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But............but he and I are at it again. This is absolutely crazy.

 

'at it' as in fighting or?

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