ReluctantRomeo Posted May 17, 2005 Posted May 17, 2005 Originally posted by NTYCE no, we officially broke up a few days ago... just got a msg from her again.. hrmm Ooooh, sorry. In that case, give it a couple of days NC at least. Unless or until she gets desperate. In which case tell her you need time to think. My temptation would be to be vague and evasive about why and how long. Would you want her back? If so, there needs to be just enough availability for her to realise you haven't completely closed the door on her.
Author NTYCE Posted May 17, 2005 Author Posted May 17, 2005 she msged me goodnite, not sure what to say back, scard i might say something wrong..
ReluctantRomeo Posted May 17, 2005 Posted May 17, 2005 Originally posted by NTYCE she msged me goodnite, not sure what to say back, scard i might say something wrong.. Say nothing for a couple of days. Radio silence. Far more effective than any words you might say.
Mary3 Posted May 17, 2005 Posted May 17, 2005 When in doubt equals = NC....she is testing you with the messaging. Dont give her the satisfaction. Be quiet. Don't respond. She is bored ? Awhh thats too bad...not trying to sound mean but when someone is * bored * its up to them to fill the holes ...you know....Not your responsibilty anymore... Unless you want her back. But I hope you dont . Why would you ?
Author NTYCE Posted May 18, 2005 Author Posted May 18, 2005 im not sure what i want?!? yeh i do love her still, but im not sure what to do.. very hard, and its also very hard not to contact her.
wow Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 NTYCE get some balls. Be strong and put your foot down and ignore her for a week. This will give u a chance to decide what you want and it shows that you are in control. Girls dont like whimps! Nice guys finish last! Always be calm, cool and collected when u see her as if nothing bad is going on in your life. You show weakness she will use it.
Author NTYCE Posted May 19, 2005 Author Posted May 19, 2005 its officially over... she told me we not getting back together... it hurts so much. i feel all this anger and pain inside.. all i can think about is, "why did she give up so easliy" why? why did she fall out of love? she told me that her dream was us growing old together but what happend? i was the one that was affaid of loving because i got hurt once but she broke into me and all i could do was love her back. but now she left.. so much pain.. so angry with myself.
ReluctantRomeo Posted May 19, 2005 Posted May 19, 2005 Originally posted by NTYCE its officially over... she told me we not getting back together... it hurts so much. i feel all this anger and pain inside.. Sorry man. This sucks. all i can think about is, "why did she give up so easliy" why? why did she fall out of love? she told me that her dream was us growing old together but what happend? She woke up. The sad truth is that when some people say they'll love you forever they mean it. Others mean it when they say it, but their feelings are more fickle. i was the one that was affaid of loving because i got hurt once but she broke into me and all i could do was love her back. but now she left.. so much pain.. so angry with myself. This sucks doubly. But it will pass with time. Right now, you need to take things one day at a time. Take your focus off her and off the relationship. Put your focus on you, your future and recovering from this. And recover you will.
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