XianErick Posted September 10, 2015 Posted September 10, 2015 Hey just some quick input on what people think/expect of others. I've been venting to my buddies about this girl. I'm pretty caught up on her My post is about people commenting on someone not being "wifey material" That is, she's someone to just hook up with. I think this is very rude! I'm sure every girl, no matter the wild past or promiscuity, has that need to be cared for and fall for someone in a classic way. Now what gets me about it is that they (guy friends/myself) can be just as bad if not worse! Then all of a sudden it's "good girls" for dating and "bad girls" for a quick lay?? How immature! Maybe i'd like to take the promiscuous girl off the market. End rant. 1
craw Posted September 10, 2015 Posted September 10, 2015 Sounds pretty bloody rude to me. It's even more annoying when the other person doesn't have the decency to say this upfront.
Author XianErick Posted September 10, 2015 Author Posted September 10, 2015 Sounds pretty bloody rude to me. It's even more annoying when the other person doesn't have the decency to say this upfront. Seriously! What really gets me is that they act like if she's not a saint she's not worth dating. I sure as hell am not a saint! Maybe I already know the side of her that they're telling me about. Maybe I looked past that and wanna make her feel more than lust
Got it Posted September 10, 2015 Posted September 10, 2015 Hey just some quick input on what people think/expect of others. I've been venting to my buddies about this girl. I'm pretty caught up on her My post is about people commenting on someone not being "wifey material" That is, she's someone to just hook up with. I think this is very rude! I'm sure every girl, no matter the wild past or promiscuity, has that need to be cared for and fall for someone in a classic way. Now what gets me about it is that they (guy friends/myself) can be just as bad if not worse! Then all of a sudden it's "good girls" for dating and "bad girls" for a quick lay?? How immature! Maybe i'd like to take the promiscuous girl off the market. End rant. While I completely agree with your argument that it is demeaning to segregate women based on their sexual past as well as the double standard between the sexes, I do disagree with your thought that "every girl . . . has that need to be cared fro and fall for someone in a classic way". That is not true and not every girl desires that. Not good or bad but just like not every guy wants a white picket fence and 2.5 kids neither do all women, their sex lives not a factor. And your friends are immature and kind of jerky (to be honest). Tell them to stuff it. Not their lives, not their decision.
Author XianErick Posted September 11, 2015 Author Posted September 11, 2015 While I completely agree with your argument that it is demeaning to segregate women based on their sexual past as well as the double standard between the sexes, I do disagree with your thought that "every girl . . . has that need to be cared fro and fall for someone in a classic way". That is not true and not every girl desires that. Not good or bad but just like not every guy wants a white picket fence and 2.5 kids neither do all women, their sex lives not a factor. And your friends are immature and kind of jerky (to be honest). Tell them to stuff it. Not their lives, not their decision. You're completely right I was wrong to generalize. In the end we laugh about it, as I get caught up easily. It's hard to get me to shut up about a girl after she pique's my interest. But yeah not every girl needs/wants that. She doesn't even want kids lol. But she does seem to have something of a romantic side hidden in there. Thanks for your input!
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