alex2424 Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 my first love dumped me under the influence of his frens and weed in 2010. yes he was a weak personality. he did it despite the fact that he loved me. the breakup turned ugly due to his friends' interference. he blocked me and my friends on facebook. 2 years later he selectively unblocked me on facebook, not my frens. also his wall was pull of posts like AL-green still in love, aerosmith-what could have been love, audioslave-does not remind me. could this mean something? he did not date anyone after me. in one of his posts he was also being bitter about getting serious once (with me). he did love me but would blindly listen to his frens. can u really become indifferent to your first love? Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 can u really become indifferent to your first love? Yes. Is that really the question you want answered? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author alex2424 Posted September 9, 2015 Author Share Posted September 9, 2015 no, why would he unblock me? plus he was the one woman man kind. in our country dating is not a fashion, and he certainly did not date anyone after me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 no, why would he unblock me? plus he was the one woman man kind. in our country dating is not a fashion, and he certainly did not date anyone after me. Breadcrumbs. He probably wants attention. If he really wanted to be with you, he would go straight to you and say it. When fools wants an ego boost, they will try to send out little messages, hoping that you will see what you want to see in them, and pursue them. Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 Now here's my question back to you. Is this the kind of person you see as your true love? One who is indirect, subtle, and vague with messages..? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Samuel_22 Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 my first love dumped me under the influence of his frens and weed in 2010. yes he was a weak personality. he did it despite the fact that he loved me. the breakup turned ugly due to his friends' interference. he blocked me and my friends on facebook. 2 years later he selectively unblocked me on facebook, not my frens. also his wall was pull of posts like AL-green still in love, aerosmith-what could have been love, audioslave-does not remind me. could this mean something? he did not date anyone after me. in one of his posts he was also being bitter about getting serious once (with me). he did love me but would blindly listen to his frens. can u really become indifferent to your first love? Yes you can become indifferent to everyone on the planet, your first love, your last love...yeah why not you can become indifferent to every human being in the world...can anyone make friends with Angelina Julie in her 30s and become indifferent to her...yes...why not? Now the real thing is that you are not looking for this question...the thing is that I never vote for going back to an ex. the first thing we need to clarify here, is that he has not given you any messages, so his unblocking you means nothing...it can be anything, from a bet they have made with friends, to a total mistake to blah blah.... and remember he dumped you in the first place, so he has to establish contact, not you...if he did it, then that might mean something...for the time being, don't do anything, just wait...if he established contact, the we would see whether or not it will work... for the time being, don't do anything...if he established contact, let us know... Good luck 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Samuel_22 Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 Now here's my question back to you. Is this the kind of person you see as your true love? One who is indirect, subtle, and vague with messages..? ^^^ You have to answer this one, before going through anything I told you! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MINDSHIFT Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 he looking for a booty call. Link to post Share on other sites
thejabberwocky Posted September 10, 2015 Share Posted September 10, 2015 I've got to tell you... if he really loved you, nothing would get in the way of that. I'm so sorry, I know how painful this is, but you can't blame his friends. This was his decision. I'm sure he cared for you, but he cares for his friends more. I don't think it matters why he unblocked you, he clearly doesn't respect you or care enough about you to deserve another chance. Have you read He's Just Not That Into You? It's actually a great advice book and I think will give you a clearer perspective. Link to post Share on other sites
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