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is it true that if someone really loves you they come back too you? they try to contact you even if you've stopped talking and you dont contact them. if they really loved you do they come back into your life????

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Sometimes, but not usually. Sometimes people come back for selfish reasons. Sometimes people don't come back because they love you.

 

If you're looking for hope to cling on to, don't. Let go and move on. Don't plan on anyone coming back. If they do, deal with it when it happens. Right now, it's a hindrance to healing and wasted energy.

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The first part of that old saying is very powerful. "if you love someone, let them go"

 

Imagine loving someone enough to be able to let them go and genuinely wish them well - and this feeling is not tainted by self pity or pride or revenge.

 

The second part of the saying "they will come back to you" is fools gold, but there is a lesson to be learnt here too; it is fundamentally the same principle as the Chinese finger puzzle. And it is trying to teach you that you cannot force love.

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