LoveRefreshed Posted September 8, 2015 Posted September 8, 2015 Just met this girl a few times over the last week. This was our 5th time hanging out... She was really cool and friendly, we blazed together a few times, and she's very attractive. Today, we were together and I couldn't help myself. I kissed her and she loved it. We ended up sleeping together twice.. She told me two things. That she wants to do it again, and that she has a boyfriend. I am not looking for love here, I'm moving in 3 months. Is it bad to have fun with her? I don't know how I feel about the boyfriend, but I know that the sex was great and that I'd like to do it again.
kendahke Posted September 8, 2015 Posted September 8, 2015 Do you have more to gain or lose by hittin' it and quittin' it? What happens when her boyfriend snoops her phone and finds out about you.
Jj66 Posted September 9, 2015 Posted September 9, 2015 That's a tough one. You will have to make your own moral judgments. You may not be looking for love but be prepared for drama.
losangelena Posted September 9, 2015 Posted September 9, 2015 Ehn. What if you were the boyfriend? Then what you say about this situation? 1
Keenly Posted September 9, 2015 Posted September 9, 2015 Would you want some dude nailing your girlfriend? 1
Author LoveRefreshed Posted September 13, 2015 Author Posted September 13, 2015 So I went to meet her again, and while we were blazing I was getting ready to tell her that we couldn't **** anymore when she preemptively tells me how she had to break a heart last weekend; that she dumped her boyfriend. This thing led to that, next thing I know in the middle of sex she says to me "You can hurt me"... Same girl, so I'll ask in this thread another question... Would this be a flag that this girl may be a bit crazy and I should worry? Like never let her know where I live crazy? Or do you think she's just in for some kinky healthy hard sex? We sort of discussed boundaries after we were done that time, but it is pretty open ended. I haven't been with tons of women, so I'm not sure if this is something semi-normal or not.
ChicagoSparty Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 So I went to meet her again, and while we were blazing I was getting ready to tell her that we couldn't **** anymore when she preemptively tells me how she had to break a heart last weekend; that she dumped her boyfriend. This thing led to that, next thing I know in the middle of sex she says to me "You can hurt me"... Same girl, so I'll ask in this thread another question... Would this be a flag that this girl may be a bit crazy and I should worry? Like never let her know where I live crazy? Or do you think she's just in for some kinky healthy hard sex? We sort of discussed boundaries after we were done that time, but it is pretty open ended. I haven't been with tons of women, so I'm not sure if this is something semi-normal or not. Haha! Buckle up your junk, kid.
lino Posted September 13, 2015 Posted September 13, 2015 Make sure you wear two rubbers and have fun.
popcornpuff Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 She may be rebounding, or maybe she's got some other issues we don't know about. I'd be careful around her.
xUnknown Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 I'd walk away. As addicting as the sex is and can be (been there before), it doesn't sound like a good situation. I had a very similar scenario in college. Sexy girl, one thing led to another and we were having great sex. Only to find out she had a boyfriend. I cut contact with her. She ended up "breaking up" with him so she could be with me. We started things back up. A few days later we were drinking and she lost her phone. I found it, but the drunk state I was in lead me to want to do some digging. I saw "I love you too" in the phone of the ex. Not sure who said that because I was impaired, but the point is, the "too" gave it away. I ended it with her again, only to have her come back again crying - but that second time I knew better. This girl I was with was also crazy like that. Dorm room window blinds wide open, grabs the desk on the front and the back - "go as hard as you want, don't worry, you won't hurt me"... among some other stuff. At the moment, really kinky and of course you want to do it. But this girl had a **** load of problems I'm glad I was able to dodge. Point is, how do you know she broke up with him and didn't ask for a break or something? How do you know they're not talking. You don't. So, she's using you for sex as a rebound. What would happen if that guy ever found out you were the reason she "broke up" with him...think he'd retaliate?
Author LoveRefreshed Posted September 16, 2015 Author Posted September 16, 2015 Good question.... but I don't know and he lived in the neighboring state. I hope she didn't lie out of the blue though since I didn't give her an ultimatum and I am super laid back and open and non judgmental. Anyway... found out she is a squirter... or close to it. It's hot. Shes fun in bed. So right bow im going to wrap it. Stay safe and just enjoy it and have fun. We only twxt to meet up. Chill. And bang. She seems normal everywhere else so I'm gonna roll with it and level up my sexuality....
kendahke Posted September 16, 2015 Posted September 16, 2015 Anyway... found out she is a squirter... How cute... she has a trick. well that makes everything cool...
Author LoveRefreshed Posted September 17, 2015 Author Posted September 17, 2015 Ha Kendahke... It may be a trick, but I get the sense she's more embarrassed by it than anything. Anyway, my point was that she seems normal in most ways.. can hold a conversation, can keep a job, etc.... broke up with her boyfriend (or lied, but why should I assume a lie?)... She just seems kinda kinky and surprisingly sexual for her personality. Hence my decision to just protect myself and have fun. That's all
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