MINDSHIFT Posted September 7, 2015 Posted September 7, 2015 So im sure most people are familiar with my story. Ex left me about 2 months ago for ex. Had a messy breakup went no contact about 2 and half weeks ago, we had a massive nasty argument. Went strict no contact about 2 days ago i.e. no stalking on whatsapp. I am so determined and still remained to continue NC. To my surprise i checked my mail and what do you know, she emailed an apology, with a few jokes and best wishes. I must admit Ive been waiting for this moment, i didn't think it will come. she stubborn and with her ex and never admits faults. Im so proud to say im completely indifferent. I do not care in the slightest maybe it shock of her contacting me idk, maybe its strength from this forum. I have no urge to reply nothing!!!. I will not be replying at all. One thing that bugs me is in the email she states "she misses me but i was too much of a good guy" wtf. Are you ****ing taking the piss. 1
ScienceGal Posted September 7, 2015 Posted September 7, 2015 One thing that bugs me is in the email she states "she misses me but i was too much of a good guy" wtf. wtf, indeed. I don't know if she is saying that you were too nice for her taste, or if she is too lousy of a person to deserve a good guy. Go with the second explanation and keep moving on. 2
EO422 Posted September 7, 2015 Posted September 7, 2015 IMO..I think that she thinks you were too much of a "nice guy"...in reality we really aren't...we just go above and beyond for the love of our life.....it's more so a petty excuse. I am not saying she will come back..but she WILL miss what you did for her and know she did make a mistake somewhere down the road. You instilled a nice guy in her brain and made her used to that...not a "nice guy" but you did nice things. Most likely what you should have done in a relationship...just a stupid excuse...she will miss it eventually! No worries..seems immature 3
Amelie1980 Posted September 7, 2015 Posted September 7, 2015 IMO..I think that she thinks you were too much of a "nice guy"...in reality we really aren't...we just go above and beyond for the love of our life.....it's more so a petty excuse. I am not saying she will come back..but she WILL miss what you did for her and know she did make a mistake somewhere down the road. You instilled a nice guy in her brain and made her used to that...not a "nice guy" but you did nice things. Most likely what you should have done in a relationship...just a stupid excuse...she will miss it eventually! No worries..seems immature Is it generally the case that they miss the one who put up with all their BS and who tolerated them when no one else would. 3
Samuel_22 Posted September 7, 2015 Posted September 7, 2015 So im sure most people are familiar with my story. Ex left me about 2 months ago for ex. Had a messy breakup went no contact about 2 and half weeks ago, we had a massive nasty argument. Went strict no contact about 2 days ago i.e. no stalking on whatsapp. I am so determined and still remained to continue NC. To my surprise i checked my mail and what do you know, she emailed an apology, with a few jokes and best wishes. I must admit Ive been waiting for this moment, i didn't think it will come. she stubborn and with her ex and never admits faults. Im so proud to say im completely indifferent. I do not care in the slightest maybe it shock of her contacting me idk, maybe its strength from this forum. I have no urge to reply nothing!!!. I will not be replying at all. One thing that bugs me is in the email she states "she misses me but i was too much of a good guy" wtf. Are you ****ing taking the piss. HAHA!!! look at this.... People ARE DAMN TOO PREDICTABLE! Yeah of course she misses you, and of course she sends an E-mail...she is just preparing you, because things are not going well between her and her boyfriend...Monkey syndrom, has pushed her to see whether the previous branch is still safe, and if she can jump to the same branch, because things are about to collapse again.... look look...my girlfriend left me for her ex 1 month ago...and I see this coming too... You have 2 options...1. give her the false sense of security, let her come back, and dump her yourself this time, what goes around, comes around...2. ignore her, you are indifferent anyhow, so both options are viable, I am afraid there is no 3 option... I....I would go for option number 1....they say forgive, there is joy in forgiveness, you can't find in revenge...well I don't think so... Good luck mate 1
dumbass2 Posted September 7, 2015 Posted September 7, 2015 (edited) I don't get a feeling from your recent past threads that you are indifferent. Indifference takes time and it's truly at the point you don't care and don't feel an emotion if they contact you. I feel you have one option and that is to do nothing, unless you want to jump on that roller coaster and live and learn. Also, she said you were too much of a good guy. That means she knows you put her on a pedestal. If you do give in and contact her, you must avoid being too nice and take her off that GD pedestal. I still believe you should do nothing though. Edited September 7, 2015 by dumbass2 2
Author MINDSHIFT Posted September 7, 2015 Author Posted September 7, 2015 Monkey syndrome looool Im doing absolutely nothing, reading the message I actually do feel sorry for her (not in a good way). As stated i think she very immature, Ive actually gone off her. Samuel_22 A few weeks ago i would have taken option 1 and had ****ing fun time with it. But the girl is emotionally draining and Ive actually seen the light hallelujah. Your probably right dumbass2, im not indifferent. I cant really explain im just like "**** off". Im happy with myself that this pathetic email has not made me crumble in away or even think about her. Im happy that the dumb bitch recognises she left a good thing for nothing, finally a nice ego boost. The bitch gets no reply from me, straight to traash. 1
Author MINDSHIFT Posted September 7, 2015 Author Posted September 7, 2015 (edited) To clarify the email was an apology of what she said in an argument 2 weeks ago mostly, with a small reference to our actual breakup. and how she wishes my family and hopes im doing well. the usual bull**** Edited September 7, 2015 by MINDSHIFT 1
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