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So I have very small breasts. In my day to day, I use the push up that adds two cups and it's great.

But how about using double push up for the first dates? I want them to feel attracted but I don't want them to be disappointed if I end liking the guy and we get intimate.

So this is my question: double push up or regular bra??

 

I didn't read the whole thread, but I'm in the itty bitty titty club as well and wear a push up in social occasions so I look female at least...fills out the clothes better.

 

When it got down to it, my BF has not been disappointed in what the padding was hiding/helping...and here's why:

 

Every breast, huge or small, has the same number of nerve endings in it. So smaller breasts have all those nerve endings concentrated in a smaller area, ostensibly making them more sensitive and reactive to ....attention ;) ...which is fascinating to some men, my BF in particular. Works for me in a big way.

 

Go with the regular bra.

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So I have very small breasts. In my day to day, I use the push up that adds two cups and it's great.

But how about using double push up for the first dates? I want them to feel attracted but I don't want them to be disappointed if I end liking the guy and we get intimate.

So this is my question: double push up or regular bra??

 

Be yourself in all things. Accentuate the gifts you have as they are.

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If a guy is disappointed in you because of the size of your boobs, he's not the one for you. Wear what makes you feel feminine, sexy and comfortable. His tough luck if that's not good enough.

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I like wearing a regular bra at first so I know the guy is happy with what I have. But that's my preference, do what you want!

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I think it's a good idea for ladies to stuff their bras. Women wear heels, makeup, primp.........I don't see it as false advertising.

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I kinda wonder about a regular bra, when it comes off and the breasts fall to the ground is that false advertising?

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brokengirl85

 

 

I.m a guy who likes a woman with small boobs, but not even Paris H with her

small titties would be allowed to take place on the flagpole the fist date.

Now serious, be yourself and stay yourself, there is no reason to feel insecure, and I ought to know!!!!!

I "dated "a very very very very huge amount of woman and seen and loved it all,

woman with just one nipple, or one or both nipples contracted, woman with different sice boobs and so on,

 

 

You have a long life ahead, and it's so more fun to enjoy it like you are than keeping up something you are not.

 

 

A man who realy loves you for you wouldn't mind if your nipples were on your back.

 

no, don't sent a pic hahaha, believe in you.

 

take care

 

 

Dutchman 1

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Let's just not wear bras at all.

 

Too much trouble!

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You have my support all the way!

 

What do you think guys? I'm really tiny but I like how my boobs look in a t shirt with no bra.

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I kinda wonder about a regular bra, when it comes off and the breasts fall to the ground is that false advertising?

But it's okay though 'cause cultural norms (bra-wearing) and junk. :p

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What do you think guys? I'm really tiny but I like how my boobs look in a t shirt with no bra.

Yep, and so do plenty of guys. My girlfriend is a small A cup and awesome. I don't love her because of her boobs. I love her boobs because she's fantastic.

 

A fun, exciting woman is someone any worthwhile interested guy will feel lucky to be with - don't distract him from you.

 

A two cup size false bra is staging the scene for disappointment.

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but really though for a first date, do you want him to get distracted lookin at your nips rather than your eyes and focusing on getting to know you as a person? Lmao. if you wanna bring him home with you, then by all means, don't wear a bra at all.

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What do you think guys? I'm really tiny but I like how my boobs look in a t shirt with no bra.

 

To me shape is more important then size.

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Breast size is so far down on my list of what's important that it's never any consideration in who I date or who I sleep with.

 

I've had women with minuscule breasts (less than A) to gargantuan (requiring custom bras) . It's just doesn't matter to me.

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I'm a chick, so maybe a guys opinion is more important.

 

But, why create a situation that is going to lead to future insecurity? Go with the regular bra, dress cute and go be awesome. If it goes well then you don't have to worry later if he's going to be disappointed in your smaller than represented breasts.

 

Honestlmy just go have fun

 

Agree. Otherwise isn't it like a guy's stuffing a sock down his pants. It's a recipe for a letdown.

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What do you think guys? I'm really tiny but I like how my boobs look in a t shirt with no bra.

 

Don't worry. Most guys don't care about small boobs

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I kinda wonder about a regular bra, when it comes off and the breasts fall to the ground is that false advertising?

 

Are you speaking from experience - just kiddng

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Let's just not wear bras at all.

 

Too much trouble!

 

I would be honored to hold them for you.

 

Dutchman 1

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I'm a guy and for what it is worth, I LOVE LOVE LOVE small breasts (As, Bs, or Cs) and prefer them over big breats 10 out 10 times. Dated 100s of women and only dated a handful with boobs over a C.

 

There are a lot of us out there too. I'd say 50% of my friends prefer small boobs too.

 

But Cs are not small

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If she is 5'11 and 140 pounds they are. 5'3 and 105 pounds is a different story.

 

Converting to real measurements that is a very slim tall woman, a C is substantial. About the same on a short skinny. It only varies on dress size.

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Converting to real measurements that is a very slim tall woman, a C is substantial. About the same on a short skinny. It only varies on dress size.

 

That helps, thanks. It really is unfair that women have to worry so much more about their appearance when trying to appeal to men.

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Normally I'd say that you should go with what makes you feel the most comfortable and confident, but I feel like wearing a double push up would kinda be false advertising.

 

Of course if a guy is only dating you because he thinks you have ginormous breasts, then you should next him ASAP because he's not worth your time.

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