Im not sure now how to carry on

[krista28]

So I feel really confused about his feelings for me and it seems to me that he is quite self centered.

I do like him but hes running a thin rope here, and I dont know how much he likes me. We do live an hour apart so its a little harder than usual to make things work. Girls have you been there? recently I started seeing a guy that I met on tinder. We hungout a few times, we have gone on a few dates and it just generally felt good. Then he would start doing things like making a plan to see me and then going to drive down to Vancouver to pickup a car....and cancel plans. I also noticed that I seem to be the one to text him first lately and not him me.

[Frank2thepoint]

You met the guy on Tinder. It's all based on looks, not personality. But you just learned that this guy has a poor personality. If he's self-centered than move on. Don't get emotionally invested into some guy that just looks good.

[krista28]

Thank you..what do I do now.

[kassy]

With regards to the tinder guy, do nothing. I mean if he texts you at some point and says he wants to meet up then I'd respectfully decline and say something like "hey thanks for the invite, it's been nice meeting you, but I don't really see any future here. All the best with your dating". If he doesn't text... Nothing needs to be said from you.

 

In regards to you, start looking elsewhere to find someone more compatible

[Gus Grimly]

Yeah, Tinder is kinda lame. Half the women I've met on there are looking for hookups and the other half that seem nice are broken or are in a relationship. I mean c'mon.

[scorpiogirl]

Thank you..what do I do now.

 

You finally take the advice that you've been given in every drama-filled thread you've started.

[krista28]

Still havent heard from him so im guessing thats a good sign.