MrGiggles Posted September 6, 2015 Posted September 6, 2015 It was tenth grade. I was part of a group of guys. Homecoming is next week and i have yet to find someone to ask. I ask a girl that is new this year. As we talk we both relize that we just click. She doesn't attempt to find me at homecoming. I gave her the benefit of the doubt. As the year goes on we become increasingly better friends. By the end of third quarter we are best friends, and the only person I ever truly trusted. I could confide in her and vice versa. We made it clear we wanted to stay best friends, nothing more. At one point she told me she loved me! And i said it back. She tells me she wants to travel alot when she gets older and wants me to go with her when we both finish college. Then summer break cones around. I take a family vacation and we can't stop talking about going to a fair together when I get back. So we go to the fair with a couple of her old friends. Near the end she holds my hand for the first time. And I'm thinking ok. We both agree that we had a great time. I leave for another vacation that day. For three days we text every day or every other day like usual. Then On the third day she says "Can you stop saying I love you and all that because we aren't even dating." Then Blocks me on Twitter, and Facebook. I ask why and have heared nothing from her since. This happened two months ago. It's the first day of school and am thinking I'm over it all. I see her for the first time and feel like I got punched in the stomach but dont show it. At times i can go from complete normality/joy to sadness. I feel like i just want to keep to myself. Always getting flashbacks of the good times. Not the big things though. The hugs after every school day. Eating lunch in her science room every day. Getting dumped by a friend is alot worse than being dumped by a GF/BF. The worst part is nobody cares, understands, and says "just move on" when i clearly can't expedite from my emotions. Having to act like a Robot at School as to not show it. I loose sleep every night and every so often cry it out. I now know i am currently learning that "Im heartbroken" is not a metaphor. Can anybody give some suggestions on how to recover. It Hurts so much.
theredpill Posted September 6, 2015 Posted September 6, 2015 The sadness will go away, if you move on, you need to do it for you and participate in your own recovery - people don't say this because it doesn't work, but because it's the best thing for both getting your ex back or finding someone even better. What would your ex find more attractive, the boyfriend who got away and started dating someone even hotter or the guy suffering with his feelings? Tough words I know... chin up dude, it's hard when you're young I know from experience, you will get over it more quickly if you work on yourself.
bluefeather Posted September 6, 2015 Posted September 6, 2015 Imagine yourself some years from now. He is older, smarter, sexier. He visits you with a smile. "Hey, I'm you from the future!" He says to you. "Let me show you something..." He then brings in the absolute most gorgeous babe you can imagine. Not like girls you've seen in high school, I'm talking women you fantasize about, 10x hotter than a high school crush. He brings this bombshell in to introduce you to her. She giggles and waves to you. Then your future self starts making out with her like crazy. And he spanks her as he gives you a wink. Then he says to you with the biggest grin, "Just wait, buddy... just wait." Did that help? 1
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