Mondmellonw Posted September 5, 2015 Posted September 5, 2015 A slip, questioning myself. I was once told in here that there are people who never change. Bad, toxic people. Disordered people. Not the average immature kind of person that one sometimes gets involved with while growing up. Well, I had a terrible relationship once. This person mistreated me a lot, but I was still hoping he would revert back to how he used to be the first two months of our relationship. My hope nearly killed everything good that was inside me. I changed a lot after that relationship, it was actually the "fail" of that relationship (he was my "first love", yeah, it wasn't real love at all, it was more like the opposite: loads of emotional abuse) that brought me to this site. I have seen many new members going trough the grief process. In some relationships there were lies or cheating involved, in others, there was abuse (but I don't read that often in here as there is a part of this forum dedicated to victims of abuse). I want all of you to know that no matter what you went trough, you will probably start to love yourself after all the pain. You will ask yourself how to better yourself.... And that will be a huge gift from your exes. No matter what type of exes they were. (I can even say that the more toxic they were, the more insight you'll get about yourself in the end). If you think you're stumbling, maybe you're on your way to knowledge. 2
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