guild11 Posted September 4, 2015 Posted September 4, 2015 Heres the story, one time I went out with my GF we decided to buy some food and go to nice place to chill out, just hanging out as usual. We got to the place I asked her what she wants to eat and when I was about to exit the car she started digging in her wallet, she gave me money but haven't said anything, when I got back she was kinda upset. When we arrived to the other place she wasnt talking at all, I asked her whats wrong, at first she didnt said anything but then she said that she got really upset by the way I behaved, that I waited for her to give me the money even tho I didnt said "give me the money" she initiated the whole part of "I'm about to give money" I lost all the apetite to eat lol. I said things as they are, I told her that we are a couple and we are together for few month so I didnt find it wrong that she paid for herself. Overall it wasnt even official dating we just hanged out. Later on she said that no other BF that she had before behaved like that, and that she feels really ashamed. Obviously neither of us was in the mood afterwards and I took her home. Was I wrong ?
StalwartMind Posted September 4, 2015 Posted September 4, 2015 Sort of alarming that something so small/simple can cause such a rift between two people, even if it'll be forgotten in a day or two. On the bright side of things, at least she has experienced that now. I guess the only question really is how this will impact her overall attitude, I don't see anything wrong with splitting money, or buying each other things, then again I really don't care about money when it comes to relationship. I feel like everything else is more important, especially when it comes to such an episode you described. Hardly anything to feel wrong or bad about, and mind you this comes from an individual who loves to give to and spoil others.
d0nnivain Posted September 5, 2015 Posted September 5, 2015 She was "testing" you & in her mind according to her rules you failed. Personally I don't date people who play games or test their partners. If she is ashamed of you, then she shouldn't be dating you because you deserve a partner who likes you. Next!
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