ConfusedInOC Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 So you guys know that trainer I mentioned, right? Well today I went to the gym early and she was there before any of her clients. She was walking around and noticed me on one of the machines. She came over and said hi. We sparked up a short conversation about how we're doing and how she cut her hand. Turns out she does interior design as well and works 6 days a week. Well, after a few minutes I said "Hey, do you want to go get some coffee sometime?" and she said "Sure!" So I asked for her number and she gave it to me. She smiled, I smiled and I told her I'd call her soon.
alphamale Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer You stud! Way to go! who let the dawgs out!! woof woof
kellyp1 Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Good job! Nothing makes someone more attractive then believing in themselves.
Jennifer'sSecret Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Good job! So when are ya gonna call her? Are you seriously gonna do coffee? What about caramels!?
RecordProducer Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 I dunno why but I had this feeling that you're going to share her phone number with us here. :lmao: Somebody's gonna get luuuuckyyyyyyy!
alphamale Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Originally posted by RecordProducer Somebody's gonna get luuuuckyyyyyyy! I don't think so R.P.
Jennifer'sSecret Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Originally posted by RecordProducer Somebody's gonna get luuuuckyyyyyyy! I don't think the uber-Christian will go there...
Author ConfusedInOC Posted May 13, 2005 Author Posted May 13, 2005 Frankly I am not interested in sex right now. It's hard for me to imagine being with someone else (even though it's not for the Ex). I am just not that kind of guy. I'll call her on Sat and leave a message. See if see wants to meet sometime on Sunday afternoon.
Cecelius Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Fake it then, unless you really do want to be just a pal. You sit on your hands, she'll go sit on someone elses.
Mz. Pixie Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Awwwwww, COC- how much you've grown I'm proud of you!! Mad love Pix
Author ConfusedInOC Posted May 13, 2005 Author Posted May 13, 2005 Originally posted by Cecelius Fake it then, unless you really do want to be just a pal. You sit on your hands, she'll go sit on someone elses. I didn't say I was going to remain celebate, I said "right now". That's where I got burned last time. If she can't wait for me, then she isn't the one for me. Thanks Mz Pixie and dgiirl!
dgiirl Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Men can be "not ready yet"?! Where do I find these men?
Illusion24 Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Go Pimp...Go Pimp!!! You see...and you said you had no game!!
Pocky Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale who let the dawgs out!! woof woof You're a nut.
Author ConfusedInOC Posted May 13, 2005 Author Posted May 13, 2005 Originally posted by dgiirl Men can be "not ready yet"?! Where do I find these men? Just find one that was deeply in love, then scorned.
BrotherAaron Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 Sure, CIOC, it's easy for you to say that you're not looking for sex... but, if things get hot, are you telling me you're gonna tell her "No... wait... I'm not ready" !? Nah I'm betting you'll get laid once, and you're attitude will suddenly change... you'll be a man againn, then we'll be asking "who let the dogs out"
Treasa Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 Call your ex when you know she won't be around and leave her a message saying you met the most AMAZING woman, and how you're happier than you've been in a long, long time. Ask her to call you back so you can drone on and on about how gorgeous this new woman is.
BrotherAaron Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 Originally posted by Treasa Call your ex when you know she won't be around and leave her a message saying you met the most AMAZING woman, and how you're happier than you've been in a long, long time. Ask her to call you back so you can drone on and on about how gorgeous this new woman is. Pictures are worth 1,000 words... just make a video montage of all the good times you've been having with the new girl (sexual content encouraged), and mail it to her along with any crap of hers you might have lying around
alphamale Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 Originally posted by BrotherAaron Pictures are worth 1,000 words... this is true BROTHER AARON. But it is also true that a vacuum or void can be filled with anything. By saying nothing and doing nothing and telling nothing you can fill her head will all sorts of self-generated imagery.
Author ConfusedInOC Posted May 14, 2005 Author Posted May 14, 2005 Originally posted by Treasa Call your ex when you know she won't be around and leave her a message saying you met the most AMAZING woman, and how you're happier than you've been in a long, long time. Ask her to call you back so you can drone on and on about how gorgeous this new woman is. She wouldn't care. Trust me. She'd know I was doing it to irk her and she'd blow it off....
Treasa Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 I'm not saying to do it to get a reaction. You're still too hung up on your ex's thoughts. I'm saying to do it to pay her back for boring you with all HER self-absorbed stories.
reservoirdog1 Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 Nothing wrong with playing it slow, COC... just not TOO slow. I've dated a number of women in the last year or so, and in my experience the quicker the sex, the shorter the period of dating. Which isn't to say that there weren't a lot of good f*cks in the mix... Taking it slow with the woman I've been seeing for a little over 2 months. Partly because we're both single parents and scheduling is hell. The key is, even if you're taking it slow, you've got to keep it progressing. Keep the tension ratcheting up, keep drawing her in. I've been doing that with this woman and it seems to be working. Still to early to tell if she's "the one" but it'd be great if she is.
BrotherAaron Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale this is true BROTHER AARON. But it is also true that a vacuum or void can be filled with anything. By saying nothing and doing nothing and telling nothing you can fill her head will all sorts of self-generated imagery. Actually, I agree BROTHER ALPHA... it's just that, if you're gonna do something, you've got to at least do it right. She wouldn't care. Trust me. She'd know I was doing it to irk her and she'd blow it off.... The funny thing is, you do it and not tell her - that will be what irks her. My ex had a conniption fit when she saw me with a new girl - and it was the second girl I'd been with since we'd broken up. I'm not even sure if she realizes that I stopped talking to her originally because I met someone new, and didn't want her to f*ck it up for me. Then I came to LS and found out that what I was doing was called "no contact". It's not like I have to update her in my love life anyway, she seems to be able to find out through the female rumor network. In fact, I was walking around town last night with a local gal and a few other friends and I ran into my ex - but I didn't even notice her until she said "Hey". Actually, she said "Hey babe", or so my friends say, but I didn't hear it that way. Anyways, my point is that I don't use my new girls as a way to get back at my ex, becuase there's no point to it. What do I care what my ex thinks, I've got this beautiful lady here waiting for me to make her night memorable - that's all about her and me, my ex is not welcome into my new relationships. Go have fun with this girl, and forget about your ex. She'll just screw you up anyway.
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