Merin Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Originally posted by yellowrose There's something wrong. After that whole breakup thing last week, I feel numb. I don't feel mushy towards him now. What's wrong with me? He's been a prince since then. Yesterday my car had to go into the shop and I was going to have to get my daughter out of bed to do it, so he came by and took it for me. When he came back, I kissed him a bunch on the cheek to thank him for doing such a sweet thing. I barely felt anything though. I know I adore him, but I'm not feeling those swoony feelings I felt before our day-long split. Is it possible that I just have a wall up? Is that what people mean when they say that? It's making me so sad. What do you guys think? I think you've withdrawn a lil and honestly it doesn't make you dumb for doing so, it makes you human. This Guy hurt you and made you question what you were doing.. IMO it's only natural to feel untrusting that he isn't going to initiate another "Let's break up" discussion and you're protecting yourself. My BF did this too and yep it makes you step waaaaaayyyyyyy back! Nobody wants to put thier fingers into the fire so to speak.
Cecelius Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Honestly, you're doing what comes naturally after someone breaks up with you. I wouldn't worry about it being a cosmic truth that you no longer love him, I think you're just rationally protecting your heart. All smart people do that.
Author yellowrose Posted May 18, 2005 Author Posted May 18, 2005 So you don't think that I'm picking up on something not being right? I do feel like I can't be all mushy anymore. Like it's not appropriate. And that's a drag because I loved feeling that love for him. But he really has been especially sweet. Maybe I'm just crazy, but it doesn't have that feeling of closeness now. We have a nice dinner date planned for tomorrow evening. Maybe that'll be good for me, give me some one on one intimate time with him to start growing closer again. Thanks guys. Sigh.
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